"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting Multiple Women

WORKEROUTER

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One thing my dad told me was to always have a handful of women, so that when one goes bad, you can just call up the next one.

And this absolutely right. After breaking up with my gf on Wednesday, I am at ground zero in terms of dating (meaning starting over). Where as just last Friday, I am going out to the city w/ my girl and then f*cking her that night, now I'm chilling tonight just reading and watching TV. And where is my ex-gf now? Probably flirting and getting ready to bend over and get f*cked by some other prick.

But the point is that if I had not confined myself to just her, I would not be chilling w/out a girl right now. For girls, it really is a lot easier. Guys will flock to them like flies on sh*t if they are good looking. And like I said, after breaking up w/ my gf, it was only no more that six f*cking hours until she is hanging out with another guy.

And so from now on, I WILL consistently aim for having multiple women on my number list.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Glad another person has learned this. And never by any means go and feel guilty for it. Women are more scandelous than men, just quieter about it.

Personally I have had up to 5 going at a time. Meaning that I either was banging them or getting something from them at least once every two weeks.

I have found that a good number is 3. Concentrate on one (the theoretical gf), have a fxck buddy (when the tgf is acting up or out of town), and have the one you are trying to make into either a tgf or fxck buddy. Works out well. Might make it a Tip in itself
 

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Originally posted by The Bartender
Glad another person has learned this. And never by any means go and feel guilty for it. Women are more scandelous than men, just quieter about it.

Personally I have had up to 5 going at a time. Meaning that I either was banging them or getting something from them at least once every two weeks.

I have found that a good number is 3. Concentrate on one (the theoretical gf), have a fxck buddy (when the tgf is acting up or out of town), and have the one you are trying to make into either a tgf or fxck buddy. Works out well. Might make it a Tip in itself
Yeah, that's excellent.
 

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Also to add to my 3 chick rotation tip: If you find that ALL three are busy on any night of the week...1). You should have known the tgf was going to be busy through earlier communications. So proceed early enough to find out what the other two are doing. 2). If you fxck buddy is busy when you call for ass...get a new fxck buddy because she is to be at your beconing call no matter what. 3). If your final chick is busy, which she probably will be because you are attempting at a half-assed pace to move her up the ranks, just mention to her that you two need to hang out soon. STEP 4). Get off your ass and go get a fourth chick to replace one of them either short or long term. Go to a party, meet chicks, feel good about yourself, if you dont go home with anyone, make a final effort to get either #1 or #2 home with you. Dont call #3 for a boot call. That'll ruin it.
 

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WORKEROUTER - Your dad is right. We should all avoid that one-itis like the plague! It's really not good for a man to be wrapped on one chick. I mean honestly the odds are really against an LTR actually succeeding and every DJ with at least an ounce of experience knows - females got game! Believe me 9.5 times of 10 a female has back up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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