"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gomariners51

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so theres this chicka who i have interest in. She is in one of my classes. I talk to her in class alittle but mainly focus on the lecture. I am interested in her so when i saw her outside of class one day i approached and got her number.
-i called her a few days later to study for a test we had. It went great (we talked and laughed and kino'd) (this was wednesday night)
-she has texted me since then and initiated it, nothing big just "good luck on your accounting test, im sure youll do fine ;) "(this was thursday night)

Was wondering for all you playa's if i should "rise up" and "seize the day" by called her or texting her this week to do something, or wait till monday to talk to her and see her agian.

let me know what you guys think... mahalo
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mikeyb

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gomariners51 said:
-she has texted me since then and initiated it, nothing big just "good luck on your accounting test, im sure youll do fine ;) "(this was thursday night)
If I were you, I'd take her to shoot some pool, or another date that's more about doing stuff than talking so you have an opportunity to escalate kino. If you're stuck for an idea, think of something that you and your buddies are doing and invite her to come along.

And after that, provided that things go well on the date, use the push-pull principle.

One more thing: either call her or do it in person, don't text her.
 

Entropy4

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Was wondering for all you playa's if i should "rise up" and "seize the day" by called her or texting her this week to do something, or wait till monday to talk to her and see her agian.
Do you want to determine your own future, or do you want everything else determine it for you? I figure you wouldn't be asking this question if you didn't want to call her. She's interested in you. Call her. Tell her you want to hang out.

Take control.
 
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