Getting Mixed Messages... is she interested?

[Landon7]

There's a coworker my age where I work and dadadadayum she's amazing. Anyways, so I've started talking to her, hit with a neg that was so hard she talked to her friend about it and had some pretty good short convos.

Been getting some looks from her every now and then, made her laugh pretty hard, hit her with another neg and every time she will pass me she will act like he hit me or poke me in the back. At the end of the day I began to have a long convo with her for my number close. We talked about college, what she wanted to do, told her I wanted to be a Navy Aviator or intelligence officer to get into he CIA (Displaying value). Now for my number close. I told her this "Well ****, looks like I got to walk home since my friend ditched out. Here, throw me you're number.. I'll need some more people to text; bit of a long journey"

She Refused.

She instantly said "No!! I will take you home!" I took her up on her offer and let her drive me home. We had some convos and I still got her number. Texted her an hour after she dropped me off, thanking her. She replied with a welcome and I later on asked what's up.. but she didn't reply. This was around 11:30 PM on a school night for her. But you'd think she would reply the next day?

What do you guys think of this? Is she interested? I know I didn't ruin anything during the ride.. not sure what's up with her not responding. I plan to text her back again later on today and see if she wants to come along to a concert and dinner at a nice restaurant.. Should I keep it up? Or is it just a lost cause?

 

[TheMusic]

Just chill. Wait. Don't stress man. She could've forgotten it. If there's one thing I've learned the past few months; don't pay too much attention on texting. Just use it to set up a date, or call, but if you wanna know if she's interested; just wait. I love to see a girl just randomly talk to me, because then I know she found out I'm interesting enough to spend time on. Girls that don't chat you up; they might've forgotten you, but most of the times it's in my opinion because you're just not that interesting.

What I usually do is; I just wait.
If the waiting doesn't pay off; make her laugh again, and when leaving ask some hardass question, or give her a riddle, and make her text the answer.
If she liked the convo, she'll text.

If not --> delete number, so you won't find yourself texting her all day and her not/barely responding. It's better that way.

My two cents.

 

[LearningSlowly]

Don't text too much, like Music said.

The physical contact she's giving you sounds like work friend contact. Playful pokes and punches are not sexual when you're around each other working.

But I don't know how the conversations went, so I can't judge her attitude and body language. Wait for a good opportunity in the next week or two and invite her on a date.

 

[LongLostFriend]

If she is as hot as you said, you have to run some extremely tight game. Don't let up on your frame. Not even an inch. "****y and funny" and "outcome independent" should be in the front of your brain. Don't let a single thing she does rattle you, and you just may have a chance with this chick.