"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Getting laid on vacation.

satelliteparties

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Anyone went on a vacation (I'm not talking some South American vacation or booze cruise or something) and got laid with random women or women that you talked to beforehand on the net and met up with them?

I want to go on a vacation anyway in early 2012...but want to kill two birds with one stone and also get laid with a girl my type during the vacation.

I'm wondering if anyone has successfully chatted up women online, then met them on the vacation and banged them (not an UG or fattie or below a 6) or if you met a 6 plus during the vacation...how you ended up meeting her and seducing her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Canada, eh?
Where? That's the question. Location is everything. Languages spoken, familiarity with the country itself?
 

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United States...metropolitan area...like Seattle (want to go there anyway regardless of women.) I'm just wondering if anyone has talked to women on pof or a dating site or something weeks/months ahead in preparation for a vacation, then had a few plates and possible lays ready.
 

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satelliteparties said:
United States...metropolitan area...like Seattle (want to go there anyway regardless of women.) I'm just wondering if anyone has talked to women on pof or a dating site or something weeks/months ahead in preparation for a vacation, then had a few plates and possible lays ready.
Seattle has one of the most unfriendly communities in America and leads the country in suicides, dont know why you would want to go there
 

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The Jimi Hendrix Museum, Sci-Fi Museum and Space Needle.

Didn't know that info though...interesting.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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satelliteparties said:
Anyone went on a vacation (I'm not talking some South American vacation or booze cruise or something) and got laid with random women or women that you talked to beforehand on the net and met up with them?

I want to go on a vacation anyway in early 2012...but want to kill two birds with one stone and also get laid with a girl my type during the vacation.

I'm wondering if anyone has successfully chatted up women online, then met them on the vacation and banged them (not an UG or fattie or below a 6) or if you met a 6 plus during the vacation...how you ended up meeting her and seducing her?
Well, since I live in the NW, I won't comment on what kind of person decides to go to Seattle for a vacation, particularly with fall and rainy season about to arrive!

However, I will say that anyone traveling to Seattle to get laid, well its unlikely to happen - maybe if you bring your Birkenstocks!
 

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I'm not talking about going on vacation solely to get laid. I'm talking about going somewhere you'd be going anyway (and I'd be going to Seattle or wherever next spring or summer, not now) and having a few female contacts from online there as hookups.
 

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is a tough decision, going to a place to get laid
See if you have a good game, place doesn't matter. You can get laid any where.
 

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The idea would be that I could have drama-less hookups, just a vacation lay, then go home, no drama, no woman bothering me or getting attached or threatening me because I used her for sex.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's actually pretty easy to get laid on vacation. Whenever I go on vacation, I have a very easy time befriending women, easier than when I'm back home in NY.

I went to Miami recently and on day 2, I had 2 European girls from the beach on my bed in my hotel room. The next day, I had a girl asking me to take her back to my hotel room from the hotel bar but declined her bc I felt she was too slutty for me. That same night I took a Colombian bartender back to my room from the hotel bar.

Girls like the fact that you're traveling, so that automatically gives you a plus.
 

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come to Cali for your vacation especially if its in summer, plenty to do and very hot girls wearing almost nothing...cant beat that
 
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