"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Getting laid in the Navy

Epicwinguy

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I am thinking about joining the navy or the air force to get some skills and my life started. Problem is its at least a 4 year commitment to being controlled by the government and your CO.

I have read that others cant stay over at your barracks, and curfews are strict. I have also read not many are getting laid in the military in general.

For those of you who know, what is the best, easiest way to get laid in the Navy?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jetleg

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I've been to the navy, but not in the US.

I was stuck on a ship with only men, and when i was on shore, the only girls i saw were on magazines.
 

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Only join the military if it's something you want to do, not because you think you'll be drowning in pu$$.
 

Epicwinguy

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Is the military seriously 4 years of chastity if you're straight?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Von

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If you like it from behind you'll be served.(joke but it does happens more than you think)

The military is a 4 years virgin commitment.

Why you think sex crimes happens or brothels are usually close to military base?

You wanna join the navy? It's a 350 males jail, in distant lands, stuck together in a 1 by 1 meter room.... the closest thing to that is Jail ;)

The army is a great experience but don't expect to get laid or improve your ''game''.... go in if you looking for discipline, challenges, values, education etc... (everything except sex)
 

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I vow agaisnt any kind of military service, it teach you nothing of value you can't learn without it, plus undertand once a military alwyas a military if they need you for cannon folder you will be the first in the list to be called, don't matter what you do or have, so unless you are willing to bet your life on a politician whim, stay far from it.

if even so you want to try, go for air force, btw the 3, air force is normally the more lax and more technical of then.

I was in the army, since here you are forced to serve when you hit 18, takes a year, it was a year I couldn't get a job(no one would hire a dude who was forced to skip a day everytime the army needed me and they couldn't fire me if they wanted) and since I also ahve a problem with people who thinks can order or push me around, lets jsut say my sarge was crazy to discharge me but would mean I would be required to return next year and he wouldn't want that plus I did the bare minimum to stay there, and didn't learn anything usefull
 

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Don't join the military with a relationship or marriage either. Soldiers get cheated on a lot while deployed and their significant others change. My parents got divorced right after my dad came back from his tour in Iraq because he couldn't stand my mom anymore.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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You'll have to take her to a motel off base. Overnight guests on a military installation is a huge no no.

You'll be living in an apartment with a roommate until you reach e5. Once you reach e5 you'll get a place by yourself.
 
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