"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Iguana

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How do you act with women you only want to fvck? I mean, what is the best thing to do and the attitude I must have so that the chick I want to fvck doesn't fall in love with me or doesn't start stalking me and calling me 24/7?

I mean, if you want to have a girlfriend, then the attitude is pretty obvious: you call her sometimes, ask her out, talk about your lives, make her feel good, make her laugh a lot, etc.

But what if you just want to have sex? How do you guys act in the beggining? How do you act during the process? How do you act after you fvck them? On which date you fvck her? First date? 3rd date? 10th date?

Well, I just want to hear some advice on this from experienced DJ's...:p


Iguana
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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