Getting ladies numbers from OLD through friend!

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don Juan

Dec 29, 2020

Due to the extreme restrictions in the place I live (because of COVID), it's amazingly limited to meet girls in real life (my preferred way).

Basically, I have to be on OLD to get dates, BUT due to the sensitive nature of my work (government position) we're not allowed to use social media of any kind with photos and real info.

I know couple friends who uses OLD and are willing to pass me the contact info of the girls they match with!

I'm thinking it would be weird to approach and contact the ladies thereafter?

Appreciate your opinion on this situation!

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.