Getting Kiss Closes on First Dates but Not getting Second Dates

[giovannikast]

Hi

Buddies

This is an unusual situation for me. It had never happened to me before. Since a couple of months I have decided to go out with better HBs, if I used to go out with HB 6 now I go out just with HB 7 or 8 with good results n the first dates. Last month I have gone out with four beautiful HBs and I kissed them all on the first date. They kissed me back in return and I never pushed them for doing that, I was just funny and CAF. I was happy because this meant an advance for me. But the bad news is that after the kiss closes I could not get the second dates.

The same HB 8 that had asked me to go out again in the end of our first date, she didn’t arrive to the second date even though I had kissed her on the first date. I called her and told me she had forgotten about the date. Then we agreed to go out again and she didn’t arrive again and turned off her phone. Another HB 7 did the same and turned off her phone. Other told me that she was going to travel and that her cell phone had been broken and so.

I am just a little confused, I kissed them all in the middle of the first date with no pressure and just using CAF and being funny. Like always. I don’t know what I do wrong because we got a good time, saying good bye with a sweat kiss, and then they just didn’t appear for the second date and didn’t answer my calls.

I don’t really understand. I never call for asking a date. I just call when the HB is getting late to the date because I don’t like to lose my time. I am a normal guy, from 1 to 10 I would be a 7. I think that getting kiss closes on first dates maybe is wrong. Maybe for some HBs is terrifying the fact that kisses and everything is happening too quickly. Perhaps HBs want a boyfriend and when I kissed them on the first date, they could have thought that I am a player or that I won’t take them seriously.

I just don’t know, I would like to know your opinions and advices, my friends.

Giovanni

 

[TheSplat]

That's weird. So, just to clarify, you kissed them mid-date and then again at the end of the date? Not trying to be mean, but maybe you're a bad kisser...Or maybe you're a little too C&F? I don't know man.

Are you setting the dates up on the first date, or at a later time?

 

[DonJuan11]

Since a couple of months I have decided to go out with better HBs, if I used to go out with HB 6 now I go out just with HB 7 or 8 with good results n the first dates. Last month I have gone out with four beautiful HBs and I kissed them all on the first date. They kissed me back in return and I never pushed them for doing that, I was just funny and CAF. I was happy because this meant an advance for me. But the bad news is that after the kiss closes I could not get the second dates.

The same HB 8 that had asked me to go out again in the end of our first date, she didn’t arrive to the second date even though I had kissed her on the first date. I called her and told me she had forgotten about the date. Then we agreed to go out again and she didn’t arrive again and turned off her phone. Another HB 7 did the same and turned off her phone. Other told me that she was going to travel and that her cell phone had been broken and so.

I am just a little confused, I kissed them all in the middle of the first date with no pressure and just using CAF and being funny. Like always. I don’t know what I do wrong because we got a good time, saying good bye with a sweat kiss, and then they just didn’t appear for the second date and didn’t answer my calls.

I don’t really understand. I never call for asking a date. I just call when the HB is getting late to the date because I don’t like to lose my time. I am a normal guy, from 1 to 10 I would be a 7. I think that getting kiss closes on first dates maybe is wrong. Maybe for some HBs is terrifying the fact that kisses and everything is happening too quickly. Perhaps HBs want a boyfriend and when I kissed them on the first date, they could have thought that I am a player or that I won’t take them seriously.

I just don’t know, I would like to know your opinions and advices, my friends.

Giovanni

We need more information to help you. Just because they kiss does not mean they like you enough to go out a second time. Some girls go on dates just to get some action, just like guys.