"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bengboy

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I'm 24 years old and I have erectile disfunction. Sounds like group, doesn't it. "Hello bengboy." Even when I'm super turned-on mentally, my soldier is reluctant to rise and salute. This is a big embarassing problem when it's time to get down to business. I've never been diagnosed, but I think it has something to do with a lack of sexual experience and the pressure to perform. Perhaps the fact that I never jacked off until I was 20 has something to do with it...it's frustrating because sometimes I'll get hard while making out with a girl, but I have no confidence that my erection will still be there by the time our clothes come off. I stopped masturbating and have noticed a small improvement, but not much. Any thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Leporello

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Do you get morning wood?
 

AKA FLEX

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Obviously the problem is mental.

Try to think about ANYTHING other than your penis while during foreplay. Concentrate on the moment itself, how amazing your partner looks naked, how great her t1ts look as they're bouncing up and down in front of your face, how tight and wet her p---- is going to feel, how you're going to pull her hair and smack her a-- as you hit it from behind, etc. Dirty, nasty thoughts.

Just don't f--- yourself up in the head by letting thoughts of your penis and what state it's in interrupt your rhythm.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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