getting it up/viagra

[sparky1981]

I recently started seeing a new chick in the last couple of weeks. Things have been going really well and after taking her to a movie last night. I was very happy when she invited me into room. We talked a little untill i decided to start making out wit her and then it was all on. I spent about an hour or two exchanging pleasure with the chick before she asked me to get inside her.

I was very happy to do this untill i discovered i had no erection. I was rock hard at the begining of the session though I didn't think it would stay all that time. When i tried to get it going again it only got about half up and stayed soft which was no good for ****ing. she then tried by giving me a hand job. It got a bit better and i thought i had something i could use to finish the job of getting inside her. But it didn't even stay long enough to put a rubber on top. My gf tried again but couldn't get it up. Dissapointed i told her mayb i had been nervous and we should just go to sleep and hopefully i would wake up wit one in the morning. I normally do but not that morning.

So we fooled about and i felt it get rock hard i knew it was ready for action but it was beginning to shrink b4 i could get a rubber on again. My gf also tried another handjob but I just got a sore **** and fustrated.

I don't know why this is happening. I rock hard if i ever watch porn or even just get a dirty txt session going wit her. So i think it might be a prob in my head. Im almost 25 don't do drugs. Don't smoke. Likes occasional drink though

Shes good about this but i know she wants it, so i am wondering if something like viagra would work though there might be a mental issue causing me to stay soft.

Also if any guy should happen to have advice as to how to keep it up with out viagra greatly appreciated

 

[dirtyvibe]

my friend tried some stuff from 7-11 called Horny Goat Weed ill talk to him about it

 

[Omni]

If you're worried about it, you're guaranteed to have a noodle rather than a piston. If you want to be sure you can penetrate when you want to:

Get a c-o-c-k ring, and put it on as soon as you're hard; it'll hold the blood in your erection.

If you're going limp too quickly for that, get a penile sheath, which allows you to have intercourse even if you're limp.

Read more about them here:

http://mens-health.health-cares.net/impotence-remedy.php

 

[Hot Ice]

Don't get frustrated.

Easier said than done, eh?


The bad thing is that more you get frustrated the harder it is to stay hard and the more you go soft, the more you get frustrated.



You are almost 25. You shouldn't be having any medical problems.

I think it's just performance anxiety.
Happened to me on my very first time having sex. I lost my erection in about three minutes.

I sometimes have it with a new chick after a period I haven't had sex in a couple of months. You just might have to get used to have sex and maybe get used to the girl. She still might feel a little bit like a stranger so you are more hyped about your performance.

Also make sure your diet is fine and you are properly hydrated and have had some good rest.

Sometimes, when you concentrate on your partner to please her for too long might send you in a midset you are there to please her and you forget about yourself, sex becomes more like a work at that's not what it should become. Of course you should please her, but giving pleasure is also really pleasurable for her so you might concentrate on little bit more yourself.

Try to avoid postitions that draw your blood to your limbs too much since your **** needs that blood to stay up. Also remember to breathe well to get fresh oxygen running in your blood.

In case you didn't know, men have these natural erection cycles of about 15 minutes. Next time, have a good normal foreplay, but don't stretch it for too long! So when you have a boner, use it.

Also empty your mind next time. It's important not to have anything else to think about. If you have to do something during that day, do them beforehand so you can relax and enjoy without any heavy thoughts in your head. Just concentrate how good she makes you feel.

 

[Jariel]

Sadly I've been there before and I'd also put it down to nervousness and pressure to perform. The worst part is that it can make you paranoid, and that just turns into a cycle, adds more pressure and makes it worse.

Don't worry about it. Your girl is understanding and there are other ways to get her off so she's not disappointed, so chill and when it happens it happens, if not, then maybe next time.

Also, make sure you are eating and sleeping well.