So here's my situation, a very hot roommate of mine just recently broke up with her boyfriend (he dumped her). Now there has always been crazy amounts of tension between us, but after their breakup, she has been pouring it on completely and wholly. How do I advance the situation to turn this into a ****buddy who is a roommate. We will only be living together for like another couple weeks and I want to get on this as soon as possible. How to I initiate a roommate romp between us. What if she is a tease and when I initiate she then thinks its weird and it becomes incredibly awkward between us. Please, need advice soon, we are going for a run together tomorrow, I understand working out with a woman is a very good idea.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Getting It On with a Roommate
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
my friend went through a similar situation but he didnt do it simply because the next morning things would change forever, a roommate is different than any other situation
move out first, then try to hook up with her, dont do it while living together
move out first, then try to hook up with her, dont do it while living together
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Just say ignitiate a wrestling match with her or something. When she plays back steal a kiss and if she doesn't think its that akward then playfully pump her in a sex simulating way (smile while your doing it). This will lead to sex quickly if she isn't careful.
Just go for it as if she was another other chick.
Flirt with her and game her, if there is interest (which it sounds like there is), go for it.
Kino escalation (touching) is important, keep teasing her, etc.
You're only going to roommates for another few weeks, so if you screw up badly and things get "awkward", it's not for long. It won't be awkward if you don't act awkward afterward, and if you treat her exact the same way as before.
Flirt with her and game her, if there is interest (which it sounds like there is), go for it.
Kino escalation (touching) is important, keep teasing her, etc.
You're only going to roommates for another few weeks, so if you screw up badly and things get "awkward", it's not for long. It won't be awkward if you don't act awkward afterward, and if you treat her exact the same way as before.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Good advice so far. Escobar, I don't need to worry to much in this situation, she's moving out of the country once the lease on our current apartment is up for a year. I'll pretty much get to **** her and then say goodbye. I just really need advice on how to escalate the situation, which seems like it's been happening without me trying a whole lot, but I want to give it that extra oomph so I can enjoy an extra week or two of having a ****buddy.
Leave it alone man.
*grabs popcorn and waits for it to blow up in newbies face*
Let us know how it goes!
edit. Oh I read it all. Especially this part.
Strong frame. If you were so confident about it you would have already done it instead of posting here looking for the boys to greenlight you. She's been pouring it on, but you stop to post here and ask permission? Whatever. I'm laughing at you. Get er done!
*grabs popcorn and waits for it to blow up in newbies face*
Let us know how it goes!
edit. Oh I read it all. Especially this part.
Strong frame. If you were so confident about it you would have already done it instead of posting here looking for the boys to greenlight you. She's been pouring it on, but you stop to post here and ask permission? Whatever. I'm laughing at you. Get er done!
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Normally I'd say don't do it! However... it's nearing the end of the term of the lease, so I say why not? I wouldn't look at it as LTR potential simply because you're likely just going to be a rebound if you go for it. Just **** her silly for a few weeks or whatever... I don't see much risk.
I'm actually laughing at you right now, you obviously didn't read the part where in 2 weeks, she's going to France for over a year. If she wants more out of this than sex I say "You're leaving the country for such a long time, I don't think it is right that we date". I get free ***** for 2 weeks and then I'm done.Warrior74 said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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What have you done so far?