So here's my situation, a very hot roommate of mine just recently broke up with her boyfriend (he dumped her). Now there has always been crazy amounts of tension between us, but after their breakup, she has been pouring it on completely and wholly. How do I advance the situation to turn this into a ****buddy who is a roommate. We will only be living together for like another couple weeks and I want to get on this as soon as possible. How to I initiate a roommate romp between us. What if she is a tease and when I initiate she then thinks its weird and it becomes incredibly awkward between us. Please, need advice soon, we are going for a run together tomorrow, I understand working out with a woman is a very good idea.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Getting It On with a Roommate
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
my friend went through a similar situation but he didnt do it simply because the next morning things would change forever, a roommate is different than any other situation
move out first, then try to hook up with her, dont do it while living together
move out first, then try to hook up with her, dont do it while living together
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Just say ignitiate a wrestling match with her or something. When she plays back steal a kiss and if she doesn't think its that akward then playfully pump her in a sex simulating way (smile while your doing it). This will lead to sex quickly if she isn't careful.
Just go for it as if she was another other chick.
Flirt with her and game her, if there is interest (which it sounds like there is), go for it.
Kino escalation (touching) is important, keep teasing her, etc.
You're only going to roommates for another few weeks, so if you screw up badly and things get "awkward", it's not for long. It won't be awkward if you don't act awkward afterward, and if you treat her exact the same way as before.
Flirt with her and game her, if there is interest (which it sounds like there is), go for it.
Kino escalation (touching) is important, keep teasing her, etc.
You're only going to roommates for another few weeks, so if you screw up badly and things get "awkward", it's not for long. It won't be awkward if you don't act awkward afterward, and if you treat her exact the same way as before.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Good advice so far. Escobar, I don't need to worry to much in this situation, she's moving out of the country once the lease on our current apartment is up for a year. I'll pretty much get to **** her and then say goodbye. I just really need advice on how to escalate the situation, which seems like it's been happening without me trying a whole lot, but I want to give it that extra oomph so I can enjoy an extra week or two of having a ****buddy.
Leave it alone man.
*grabs popcorn and waits for it to blow up in newbies face*
Let us know how it goes!
edit. Oh I read it all. Especially this part.
Strong frame. If you were so confident about it you would have already done it instead of posting here looking for the boys to greenlight you. She's been pouring it on, but you stop to post here and ask permission? Whatever. I'm laughing at you. Get er done!
*grabs popcorn and waits for it to blow up in newbies face*
Let us know how it goes!
edit. Oh I read it all. Especially this part.
Strong frame. If you were so confident about it you would have already done it instead of posting here looking for the boys to greenlight you. She's been pouring it on, but you stop to post here and ask permission? Whatever. I'm laughing at you. Get er done!
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Normally I'd say don't do it! However... it's nearing the end of the term of the lease, so I say why not? I wouldn't look at it as LTR potential simply because you're likely just going to be a rebound if you go for it. Just **** her silly for a few weeks or whatever... I don't see much risk.
I'm actually laughing at you right now, you obviously didn't read the part where in 2 weeks, she's going to France for over a year. If she wants more out of this than sex I say "You're leaving the country for such a long time, I don't think it is right that we date". I get free ***** for 2 weeks and then I'm done.Warrior74 said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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