Getting invited to parties

[skumface]

i lived in a new town now for about 2 months. ive quite a bit of friends and have several numbers. My friends and I always have fun in school together and everything is cool except for when it comes to weekends. I always ask my buddies "Hey man what ya doin this weekend, goin to any parties?" and they usually respond with something like "na i gotta get up early " or "Im just gonna go hook up with a chick at the movies". Odd thing is on Monday they come in and say "I was so drunk this weekend, i made with 3 chicks!!" if i ask where they were they wont give me a straight answer. Then during the week they will talk about parties.
keep in mind one of my friends knows just about EVERYONE in the school so there is no way he just goes home and watches tv all night. If i ask them to atleast introduce me to someone who can invite me to a party they say "ok sure ill call" or "ask around". both turn out negativley.
Im not an antisocial guy nor do I have something seriously wrong with my looks so I really do not know what wrong.
How can get invited to places such as parties or just hangin out in someones basement? Suggestions on being social in general?

thanks in advance

 

[redbullfbu]

well all i can say is jus keep makin friends with those people and ignore the kids who dont invite u to those parties cuz there basically useless and they prob dont like if there doin that

 

[[]D [] []V[] []D]

if your a rich person or smth you can hold your own party!

 

[titoman]

Originally posted by skumface
i lived in a new town now for about 2 months. ive quite a bit of friends and have several numbers. My friends and I always have fun in school together and everything is cool except for when it comes to weekends. I always ask my buddies "Hey man what ya doin this weekend, goin to any parties?" and they usually respond with something like "na i gotta get up early " or "Im just gonna go hook up with a chick at the movies". Odd thing is on Monday they come in and say "I was so drunk this weekend, i made with 3 chicks!!" if i ask where they were they wont give me a straight answer. Then during the week they will talk about parties.
keep in mind one of my friends knows just about EVERYONE in the school so there is no way he just goes home and watches tv all night. If i ask them to atleast introduce me to someone who can invite me to a party they say "ok sure ill call" or "ask around". both turn out negativley.
Im not an antisocial guy nor do I have something seriously wrong with my looks so I really do not know what wrong.
How can get invited to places such as parties or just hangin out in someones basement? Suggestions on being social in general?

thanks in advance

Skumafce, i am in the exact same situation as you are, i moved here 2 months ago, i'm in grade 12, i met some people, and got their msn and ****, they are always like i'll just buckle down tonite, and then at work or school talk about parties, i have like 4 poeple on my msn and they are all doin the same thing man... it's frustrating...

 

[skumface]

Re: Re: Getting invited to parties

Originally posted by titoman
Skumafce, i am in the exact same situation as you are, i moved here 2 months ago, i'm in grade 12, i met some people, and got their msn and ****, they are always like i'll just buckle down tonite, and then at work or school talk about parties, i have like 4 poeple on my msn and they are all doin the same thing man... it's frustrating...

Hahaha what the heck is it with people? Actually i can relate to that. Bak where i used to live one of my friends who moved there always used to complain that i didnt invite him to parties or what not. To tell the truth i never really thought of him when i went to things :s
Its gotta be in the genes or something but parties are a ****in eird deal

 

[titoman]

yeah i guess so man