long story short, i want to know if it's possible to get a meaningful relationship out of stealing a girl away from her boyfriend. here's the details:
first of all, let me say my ultimate goal is not to be a DJ just for the sake of being good with women. I'm here to improve my game in order to find the highest quality gf, and ultimately make her my wife. if it takes 100 girls to do it, so be it haha, but I do want to settle down someday.
so can a guy with my goals in mind gain anything meaningful (a relationship, not just casual sex) from going after a girl in a situation like this? i've never really thought about it until i clicked with this hot girl that already has a bf. i'm dating someone else right now, but i've still got her stuck on my mind bc of so much of how we click. but that's where I'm stuck.
I've searched the forum on this topic and i've gotten caught in a catch-22. I could play the normal attraction game, and hangout and escalate with her. If she's interested, it will work, but it will be cheating. cheating is fine if I just want to make her a f-buddy, but for a relationship, isn't it true that if she cheats with you, she'll cheat on you (or is that just another dating myth?) i definitely would like to hear your guys experiences on this.
the other advice that i've heard is be the best self you can be (alpha and all that jazz), show interest and walk away. This is something that I morally agree with, but I don't see how that's going to work in real life. Some girl in a 3+ yr relationship isn't going to branch swing because she had a few fun times hanging out with you.
so are hot girls with boyfriends just not applicable for getting into a relationship then? or is making them a cheater not as bad as it seems?
first of all, let me say my ultimate goal is not to be a DJ just for the sake of being good with women. I'm here to improve my game in order to find the highest quality gf, and ultimately make her my wife. if it takes 100 girls to do it, so be it haha, but I do want to settle down someday.
so can a guy with my goals in mind gain anything meaningful (a relationship, not just casual sex) from going after a girl in a situation like this? i've never really thought about it until i clicked with this hot girl that already has a bf. i'm dating someone else right now, but i've still got her stuck on my mind bc of so much of how we click. but that's where I'm stuck.
I've searched the forum on this topic and i've gotten caught in a catch-22. I could play the normal attraction game, and hangout and escalate with her. If she's interested, it will work, but it will be cheating. cheating is fine if I just want to make her a f-buddy, but for a relationship, isn't it true that if she cheats with you, she'll cheat on you (or is that just another dating myth?) i definitely would like to hear your guys experiences on this.
the other advice that i've heard is be the best self you can be (alpha and all that jazz), show interest and walk away. This is something that I morally agree with, but I don't see how that's going to work in real life. Some girl in a 3+ yr relationship isn't going to branch swing because she had a few fun times hanging out with you.
so are hot girls with boyfriends just not applicable for getting into a relationship then? or is making them a cheater not as bad as it seems?