"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RS123

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Hi,

Im new to this place and new to pickup related things.
I'm not very good with women and get socially awkward around them fast.
This is something i should probably fix and since i never did it in highschool im stuck with it in college now.

I feel the problem gets bigger every year, even though i improve it's just that the world changes faster than i do.
Im 20 and 2-4yrs ago i was into 14-16 yr old girls and i screwed up there.
Now i have to talk to 17-19 yr old girls which is obv much tougher.

Nothing is too late though and i'll be doing a lot of traveliing soon and be in cities for a week where i probably won't return.

So basically i want to know:

Anyone else started this way?
Wait for vacation and than just approach a bunch of people you will never see again.

Where to start?
I don't like the idea of pickup lines a bunch but it must be a fine way to get started so, what are the 3-5 best stories/lines to start with.

Any pointers?

Look for eye contact body langause and such?
What specifics to look for?

Also i can imagine there have been other posts like this, so if this is out of line PM me and i will move it to a the correct part of the forum or edit my post.

Hope you guys can help me :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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RS123

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What would u think would be a good way than?

Also, It's not that I'm not a confidant person.
Just not when it comes to talking with women, , largely due to my lack of experience i think.
Seems to me best way to fix that is try to talk to people.
I'm also intrigued by the entire pickupartist thing and im wondering whether or not it can help me.
 
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