"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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RS123

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Hi,

Im new to this place and new to pickup related things.
I'm not very good with women and get socially awkward around them fast.
This is something i should probably fix and since i never did it in highschool im stuck with it in college now.

I feel the problem gets bigger every year, even though i improve it's just that the world changes faster than i do.
Im 20 and 2-4yrs ago i was into 14-16 yr old girls and i screwed up there.
Now i have to talk to 17-19 yr old girls which is obv much tougher.

Nothing is too late though and i'll be doing a lot of traveliing soon and be in cities for a week where i probably won't return.

So basically i want to know:

Anyone else started this way?
Wait for vacation and than just approach a bunch of people you will never see again.

Where to start?
I don't like the idea of pickup lines a bunch but it must be a fine way to get started so, what are the 3-5 best stories/lines to start with.

Any pointers?

Look for eye contact body langause and such?
What specifics to look for?

Also i can imagine there have been other posts like this, so if this is out of line PM me and i will move it to a the correct part of the forum or edit my post.

Hope you guys can help me :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

RS123

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What would u think would be a good way than?

Also, It's not that I'm not a confidant person.
Just not when it comes to talking with women, , largely due to my lack of experience i think.
Seems to me best way to fix that is try to talk to people.
I'm also intrigued by the entire pickupartist thing and im wondering whether or not it can help me.
 
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