Agreed sir ohrein! While keeping all those things in mind, and doing it because of the fact she is the type of woman you describe above... how have you personally gone about actually making it happen after a plate asks you to be exclusive? Or I guess what’s your “plan of action” so to speak? How do you usually proceed?
The reason I ask “how” to get into LTR moreso stems from conflicting shyt I’ve read on the internet about “rules” on how to do that when you are ready to do that. Without the girl all the sudden losing attraction for you because she “has you” now.
You’ve given me great advice in the past.
Men know what they want and aren't afraid to get it.
Ignore the rules. If a woman is interested in exclusivity and you are too, accept it. If you're not, don't. In my experience women lose attraction for you when you get comfortable and become AFC, not because they have you. The women who get bored because they have you are low quality and will eventually get bored no matter what you do. They are almost always damaged in some way, BPD or avoidant, so they freak out at intimacy and cut and run. Additionally, you should be naturally using dread game and social proofing by being friendly with women (in an acceptable way) in front of your partner. When you make other women laugh and smile in front of your girlfriend, it reaffirms you're a catch to her. This is far more important than reacting to the question. I would also say that playing too hard to get with exclusivity will drive away women who want stable attachments. I had a friend recently try to **** around with game that was incongruent to him in this exact way, by "not being sure" he wanted a relationship. She ended up putting her foot down and he had to come back with his tail between his legs so he basically started his relationship with a weakened frame.
With the last three women who asked me for exclusivity my reactions were as follows :
1) Woman was damaged so I said I wanted my independence which was true. She continued to be a plate.
2) Woman I wrote about a while ago who had a bunch of red flags I ignored. She asked and I said sure, let's give it a shot. Relationship lasted about four months. She was avoidant type (diagnosed by her psych, she showed me the information sheets he printed out and gave her) and broke up with me a month later. As a side, this is a good demonstration of women following emotions rather than logic. She knew she had this problem but did it anyway with me.
3) Current girlfriend asked me on the fourth date (she is a bit inexperienced haha). I said of course, I'm only interested in you right now and I want a proper relationship. We've been dating for around six months and she's by far the highest quality woman I've dated.
All these women were after my red pill transformation, I maintained frame and never became AFC with any of them. None of my reactions were following a script or method, they were just me doing what I wanted to do.
