"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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emmet1

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hey everybody!
recently i started to go out for runs.
my question is, what is the preferable amount of days in a week i should run in.
and as a skinny guy who has a hard time gaining weight, what are the diets i should take on?

EDITED: the question also includes a gym workout
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt

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If you're skinny and run a lot of long distance, it's going to be hard to bulk up. Running does take off body fat and make you toned, which girls tend to like, but too much of it will keep you from being very big. If you want to get bigger, there is a lot of great advice on this forum about how to do that. I would suggest that your run time be interval sprints instead of one long distance jog. You can do that every day if you want. Sprint until you're out of breath, give yourself about a minute to rest by walking, and then do it again.
 

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I agree with Bible Belt, if your on the skinny side or average body, then cardio isnt a big concern for you if you want to bulk. I'd say 2-3 times a week of cardio for 20 minutes for good health. Personally, I don't do any cardio unless its to warm-up.

As far as a weight training program, it will come down what your goals are. In the DJ Bible there is a new section for health & fitness, good articles there to help get you started.

My personal opinion is to start training 3 days a week using compound movements, start learning the exercises and practicing good form.
 

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Hi Emmet1,
To gain weight lift weight, increase your workout and take supplements. Increase caloric intake and consume more proteins through daily meals. Increase the number of meals and add smarter food more in your diet plans. Eat more snacks and take energy fluids.
Alamo Heights gym
 
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Many people how wants to get into shape but they do not realize there is more to fitness than well toned muscles.Developing an exercise plan that fits your life style..Eat healthy food.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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emmet1 said:
hey everybody!
recently i started to go out for runs.
my question is, what is the preferable amount of days in a week i should run in.
and as a skinny guy who has a hard time gaining weight, what are the diets i should take on?

EDITED: the question also includes a gym workout
Well, depends on how much you are running and your goal. If you are actively trying to bulk, then I'd leave it to the minimum necessary to keep your cardio, if even that. If not, then knock yourself out.
 

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teeyounee said:
SS+GOMAD if you are super skinny. Running doesn't kill gains you just have to eat more. But start lifting .
Totally agree! I'm skinny and I'm going to gym and I'm gaining weight every month.. I work hard but also I'm eating a lot..
You just need to balance it
 
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