Getting in a realtionship can be dangerous to you health

[JustWuzzle]

I know a bunch of you on here want a girl or looking to find a female companion. That is all fine and good but one thing I realized is that being in a relationship can be dangerous to your health. I'm not a troll or anything like that. I feel that it is important to kill that nice guy inside of you first. If you jump into a relationship while still trying to please everyone else out there without pleasing yourself disasters can and will happen. As I've learned in "No More Mr. Nice Guy", you usually end up pleasing no one while making yourself out to seem perfect. Guess what you are not perfect(that's fine) and I'm coming to realize there is nothing wrong with wanting taking and doing what you like. So if you know that you are a nice guy(dishonest guy) deep inside I suggest you get this book. If you have very few male friends like I do I suggest you get this book. If you can't stop saying no I suggest you get this book. I wanted to add that the reason I say being in a relationship can be dangerous is because predatory women can spot nice guys out like dogs do blood. They will take advantage of your "niceness". You'll start to change into something you don't even recognize. Usher talks about that in his song papers. It is best to stay single until you can cure this syndrome.

 

[Mike32ct]

I'm familiar with that book. It's a great read.

Yes, there is a risk of a controlling woman trying to latch onto a nice guy. It's even worse if he marries her.

 

[JustWuzzle]

I'm familiar with that book. It's a great read.

Yes, there is a risk of a controlling woman trying to latch onto a nice guy. It's even worse if he marries her.

That is my story the nice guy for lack of whatever starts pushing back. It is slow and takes both him and the women some time to figure out. I got married young and won't do it again. a lot of time nice guys need to step back and observe themselves. Don't jump into a realtionship with anything with a slit between her legs. Be picky she has the right to and you do to.

 

[nismo-4]

It's more like getting in a relationship can be dangerous to your wealth.

 

[JYW]

It's more like getting in a relationship can be dangerous to your wealth.

Wealth, health...same ****, different term.

If she's not a gold-digger she takes your health.
If she is a gold-digger, you pay so she won't take your health.

I'm in college, there's no way in hell I'm going for clingy girls...Plus desperation is a turn-off anyways

 

[powpow]

Getting in a relationship can be hazardous to your suave.

I used to know some cats.

They were all super cool. You take pictures with them, theyre looking good, looking cool, looking like cool guys, being normal, smiling, laughing, having a good time.

Now I see them having pictures on facebook with their girlfriend who has apparently domesticated them. They always making stupid faces and ****. In like all of their pictures. I think the women positively reinforce this kind of behaviour because it shows their other friends that they have power over the men. Its so sad.

 

[vatoloco]

I wanted to add that the reason I say being in a relationship can be dangerous is because predatory women can spot nice guys out like dogs do blood. They will take advantage of your "niceness".

If you don't have your shit together and are a chump, yep, you will get taken advantage of.

It is best to stay single until you can cure this syndrome.

I personally agree. If you're still an AFC, getting into an exclusive relationship with a girl will only make matters worse. Plus if she's really a good one, you will fuck it up (again!) and miss out on enjoying a mature and healthy relationship with a good woman.

I recently entered an exclusive relationship but I know that I cannot be complacent now that she's earned it.

You have to be a Don Juan for life...