"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting humour back

VashStampede

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This might sound ridiculous..

I would like some advice on how to get into a mind set of seeing things through a different light for humour purposes. The funniest jokes i find, or atleast the ones that i used to be good at were because they were completely crazy, irrational, and no normal person would think like that. Kinda like when everyone else is walking on the ground, i was walking on the roof.. on my hands.. That was how random and unexpected my humour and thought process was, and i could recognize humour in the most boring of things. Girls love humour, but I have lost it.. Would watching alot of standup help me to develop my humour? I would like to develop my own style or recapture what I already had if possible, dont wanna be making the same jokes everyone else is, or simply copying what i saw on TV. Does anyone have any other ways of developing humour or being in the right mind set?

I delved into depression for 6 years and have only just come out of that.. I am wondering how to get my sense of humour back by getting that state of mind, attitude and view point back. I am also considering moving onto anti depressants which i believe i should have done long ago. Perhaps when i was 10 years old.. (im 25 now) I think it would help to keep me in an excited, crazy, spontaneous mood, which i believe is directly linked to humour. Someone help me to get my humour back lol

Also, does anyone have advice for a short man? Should i wear big boots to try to compensate? or do people see that as being weak and insecure?
When average sized men and woman wear big shoes, noone cares or seems to notice.

Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yowhatsup

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Ya, watching a lot of comedy will probably help (it can't hurt). As for the antidepressants, I would do what your Doctor thinks is best, that kind of advice is difficult to give on an internet forum. Generally speaking though, I would say to avoid them unless necessary as prescribed by your doctor.
 

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bro you needa start fresh forget the past this is a new year coming up
try taking them antdepresent pils see what happens only gona get u a body buzz and feel good as **** u want humor

http://youtube.com/watch?v=hu3jGXCKeRU

steveharvey old school lool he will get u laughing

if u are short u can wear them boots to boost ur self esteem . its not a big deal if u are short


for now just try reading a lil bout the dj bible skim through it . it should change ur views on differnet asspects of life
 

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Try running around yelling "love and peace" :p

I was reading your post and wondering what the cause for looseing your sense of humor, I was starting to guess then you answered it.
VashStampede said:
I delved into depression for 6 years and have only just come out of that.. I am wondering how to get my sense of humour back by getting that state of mind, attitude and view point back. I am also considering moving onto anti depressants which i believe i should have done long ago. Perhaps when i was 10 years old.. (im 25 now) I think it would help to keep me in an excited, crazy, spontaneous mood, which i believe is directly linked to humour. Someone help me to get my humour back lol
Humor is completely tied to what your mood is. The happier you are the easier it is to notice things and then act on them. All you can do is try to improve you mood. Start taking those antidepressants.
VashStampede said:
Also, does anyone have advice for a short man? Should i wear big boots to try to compensate? or do people see that as being weak and insecure?
When average sized men and woman wear big shoes, noone cares or seems to notice.

Thanks
How tall are you? I'm 5'6 but my height only bugs me a little. There are many "short guy" threads just do a search. I'm not too sure about wearing height increasing shoes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ready123

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part of it is having a positive view on life, the other part is being spontaneous
and shutting the analytical part of your brain up when you're interactin w/ people

learn to laugh at yourself. if you think you're short, make fun of yourself, it's a good start
 
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