"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Getting hitched and getting ditched

justjosh47

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The past few months have been depressing as hell and they shouldn’t be. It seems like my opportunities to maintain any type of relationship with quality girls is becoming rewound because there all getting married! I am twenty one years old and a senior at a college in WV. I suppose it’s bound to happen some time but it’s getting a little ridiculous. A girl I was dating this summer just got engaged , so maybe it want last…I’m not really sure, all I know is she was sleeping with me last July and now she has a ring on her finger only a few months after we broke it off . Then another girl I was off and on with for most of my college carrier is having a wedding at the end of the month and expects me to attend , am I not going to go … not only can I not afford it but the feeling of seeing a girl I used to be so attached to might just throw mw over the edge… maybe I am a little bitter , but I have a few things going on in my life , I have been dating two different girls on a regular basis , it just seems like a great deal of the girls I know who are twenty to twenty one seen to take what ever they can get . I’m young and I want to have adventures and make a name for my self…then maybe ill find the right girl if there are any left.
Is this just a WV thing t any thoughts?
-Josh
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Calypzo

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I've had two ex-girlfriends of mine get engaged recently as well.

It seems whenever I go out and talk to women, that they will tell me later on in the conversation that they have a boyfriend.
 

afc_2_dj

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That does suck. I have noticed lately that pretty much every decent women is either married or engaged or at least with bf, as opposed to a few years ago, but I suspect thats just an age thing!!

What also sucks is all your friends getting married, it leaves you pretty short of wingmen, seems their wifes don't like it if you invite their husband to go out and pick up chicks with you!!! :)
 
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