"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting hitched and getting ditched

justjosh47

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The past few months have been depressing as hell and they shouldn’t be. It seems like my opportunities to maintain any type of relationship with quality girls is becoming rewound because there all getting married! I am twenty one years old and a senior at a college in WV. I suppose it’s bound to happen some time but it’s getting a little ridiculous. A girl I was dating this summer just got engaged , so maybe it want last…I’m not really sure, all I know is she was sleeping with me last July and now she has a ring on her finger only a few months after we broke it off . Then another girl I was off and on with for most of my college carrier is having a wedding at the end of the month and expects me to attend , am I not going to go … not only can I not afford it but the feeling of seeing a girl I used to be so attached to might just throw mw over the edge… maybe I am a little bitter , but I have a few things going on in my life , I have been dating two different girls on a regular basis , it just seems like a great deal of the girls I know who are twenty to twenty one seen to take what ever they can get . I’m young and I want to have adventures and make a name for my self…then maybe ill find the right girl if there are any left.
Is this just a WV thing t any thoughts?
-Josh
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Calypzo

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I've had two ex-girlfriends of mine get engaged recently as well.

It seems whenever I go out and talk to women, that they will tell me later on in the conversation that they have a boyfriend.
 

afc_2_dj

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That does suck. I have noticed lately that pretty much every decent women is either married or engaged or at least with bf, as opposed to a few years ago, but I suspect thats just an age thing!!

What also sucks is all your friends getting married, it leaves you pretty short of wingmen, seems their wifes don't like it if you invite their husband to go out and pick up chicks with you!!! :)
 
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