Getting her to ***

[RobNeb]

Overuse of vibrators has made it very difficult to get some women off any other way. Could be something you're not providing but it could also be a situation where you aren't ever gonna get her there.

I totally get it and thank you. Good food for thought.

 

[RobNeb]

Yea I had a similar experience with a girl last year dominated her from the word go was throwing her about my room a bit after first date , she got very excited and very wet

Female orgasms are largely psychological and largely why they struggle to get off so much , a lot of it is literally fantasy that most men struggle too actualise into reality

Women love role play and fetishes because it means they are out of control

They love being tied up because it means they can be used by the male without resistance she fully submits

She wants to be totally overpowered and used for her mans pleasure this allows her ultimate arousal and ultimate satisfaction

Also why women secretly long to be taken by 2/3 men at a time

if you want to bore a woman in bed just respect her

Totally understand that and appreciate the input. I’ve been a sensual Dom before and know when to bust out the cuffs and paddle when needed. The current GF will find out later how bad o can be. Currently I’m just going slow with dominate and forceful positions and adding a lil every time we’re together.I’ll definitely remember what you mentioned about not boring her.

 

[RobNeb]

Totally understand that and appreciate the input. I’ve been a sensual Dom before and know when to bust out the cuffs and paddle when needed. The current GF will find out later how bad o can be. Currently I’m just going slow with dominate and forceful positions and adding a lil every time we’re together.I’ll definitely remember what you mentioned about not boring her.

i wanted to tell you that this last weekend I added some light domination and was able to get her to *** twice and my Darling lady friend rewarded me with allowing me anal for the first time and is quite enjoyable finishing that way from the side position. Was very satisfying for both us. Thanks for the comments and encouragement. I appreciate ya. - Rob

 

[anonymous12345]

of course lots of sweet after care which I know continues to bond us.

Yeah, I lost a girl probably because of the lack of aftercare. We all know the dangers of simping/pampering, so I thought the best strategy was to be distant. Afterwards I realise the emotional connection through aftercare so to speak probably would have nurtured our thing.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

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You can make them feel an emotional connection without becoming a doormat.

And ethically and carefully deployed targeting of the after glow cuddle can make the difference in whether she bonds with you or not.