"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Getting her to talk more (easy tip)

The Bartender

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Most women will talk endlessly about whatever and themselves. If you are out doing some DJing and you run into a lady that is aprehensive about talking...work with what she has just told you. With this, fill in some blanks, whether your assumptions are correct or not is generally irrelevant. Express your thoughts, not overly express but enough to show her that you are interested in the details (doesnt matter if you care or not). This will spark her to give you all the goodies and build some rapport.

Step 2: Sit back, appear to listen and think about sex. And remember other DJ tips.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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although the tip is good (and already very well known) do not expect it to work wonders like you think it will. It will not make unintrested or shy girls suddnely open up to you and talk.
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
although the tip is good (and already very well known) do not expect it to work wonders like you think it will. It will not make unintrested or shy girls suddnely open up to you and talk.
Its more for keeping interest or maintaining versus the gaining interest or establishing.

Yes you do still have to approach, open, all that good stuff. Just a reminder when you're "in there" that asking about details may potentially further your chances of getting a number and so on.
 
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