"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting her to talk more (easy tip)

The Bartender

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Most women will talk endlessly about whatever and themselves. If you are out doing some DJing and you run into a lady that is aprehensive about talking...work with what she has just told you. With this, fill in some blanks, whether your assumptions are correct or not is generally irrelevant. Express your thoughts, not overly express but enough to show her that you are interested in the details (doesnt matter if you care or not). This will spark her to give you all the goodies and build some rapport.

Step 2: Sit back, appear to listen and think about sex. And remember other DJ tips.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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although the tip is good (and already very well known) do not expect it to work wonders like you think it will. It will not make unintrested or shy girls suddnely open up to you and talk.
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
although the tip is good (and already very well known) do not expect it to work wonders like you think it will. It will not make unintrested or shy girls suddnely open up to you and talk.
Its more for keeping interest or maintaining versus the gaining interest or establishing.

Yes you do still have to approach, open, all that good stuff. Just a reminder when you're "in there" that asking about details may potentially further your chances of getting a number and so on.
 
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