Getting her to see you as a lover not provider.

[Soolaimon]

I live in london where there are a lot of women with good careers, high levels of education etc.

I have a low status job.

You can't be seen as a provider when you have a low staus job and the women have better ones or equal.

Before you are concerned about women I would suggest that you do everything possible to enhance you skills and education to get a better quality and paying job.

Earning more income with a better job allows you to make more decisions and gives you more freedom to do what you want in life.

In regards to being seen as a lover you need women to be attracted to you for that to happen.

While your enhancing your professional skills enhance your skills with women to better yourself all around.

 

[BrainDamage92]

For a female to sleep with you I think you need to be seen as both. And a provider doesnt just provide financial support, the "lover" provides love, affection, attention etc. so the lover is also a provider and in reverse and this whole thing is a futile excercise in semantics. Also looks is a double edged sword - people who are both smart and good looking (like myself) (yes being humble is my best trait) receive instant hate from everyone based on nothing other than envy.