Getting her to open up

[Bingo-Player]

I’m casually dating a woman at the moment and looks wise i couldn’t ask for more , shape on her is perfect and physically we couldn’t be a better match

Its just mentally i feel like we could connect a little better ........at the moment the pure attraction between us just seems to be overruling everything else and as a result we can’t seem to get a meaningful conversation going

its weird to explain and i haven’t really had anything like this before

basically i just want her to open up to me i want to get a better understanding of who she is instead of just messing & joking about all the time

 

[Mr Wright]

Have you slept with this chick?

 

[hockeyfreak79]

I’m casually dating a woman at the moment and looks wise i couldn’t ask for more , shape on her is perfect and physically we couldn’t be a better match

Its just mentally i feel like we could connect a little better ........at the moment the pure attraction between us just seems to be overruling everything else and as a result we can’t seem to get a meaningful conversation going

its weird to explain and i haven’t really had anything like this before

basically i just want her to open up to me i want to get a better understanding of who she is instead of just messing & joking about all the time

She may just be introverted or maybe she doesn't understand who she it? Majority of my exs were introverted, sometimes there just really isn't much going on there. The tend to have boring hobbies, IMO. A lot of broads have boring lives and end up adopting the likes of who ever they are dating. I prefer extroverted chicks but the kicker is sometime it's to much to handle for me. She's creating a challenge and it's working on you, keepin you interested by being aloof! She may just have some baggage she is trying to hide until the right time? Who knows dude you'll find out eventually.

Try active dates, darts, pool, shuffle board..lol maybe she will open up then?

 

[El Payaso]

One day, while you guys are casually hanging out, mention something serious or tragic that happened to you in the past. You have to casually drop it in so it doesn't seem forced.

 

[miketan70]

It looks like she needs more time to open up so easy man. Give her time.

 

[GetFit66]

This forum seems like it has improved from one or two years ago.