"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting her phone number without asking?

FrankWank

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I have a friend who has the smoothness to create some type of intense attraction with the ladies when ever we go out. He says (and i seen him in action) he has never asked a girl for her #. She has always given it to him. He says it requires special skills to do this. I myself can never do this since i always have to ask and all my other boys have to ask as well. I think he knows what to say to her to trigger attraction and i swear , she will always give him her phone number. I believe that his looks have alot to do with it since he is pretty dam good looking dude. OUr girl friends define him as tall, dark and handsome plus he works out and has his own business. So that helps too

Does anyone else here get a girls # without asking
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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akeith90

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The few times I have used this, it has work. But you need some rapport first.

Find out her name, punch it in your cell phone, give her your cell phone with the place for her to type in her number. She'll type it in, and you're set. But just make sure you save it. I made the mistake of just hitting the end button after a girl typed it in, and I lost the number.

If it doesn't work for you, just add "Let's hang out sometime" and it should help.
 

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FrankWank said:
Does anyone else here get a girls # without asking
Yes. Girls have given me their number and taken my number many times. There's no real secret to it, you just build a solid rapport with the girl and don't ask for it. Eventually (if you played it well enough) they'll feel confident enough where they can offer it to you instead. I had a girl ask me for my number on Saturday while out which is similar.

Haha, I just remembered. Last week I was drunk and talking on my room mates cell phone this girl for one reason or another *cough cough* drunk dialing, when this girl I wa talking to strides by me waving good bye. As she's passing I flip open and she handled the rest. NO WORDS EXCHANGED BETWEEN US, I was still talking on my roomies phone to some other girl, while she was putting her her didgets into mine not saying anything. True I'm not sure if the number good (too drunk to do an exchange) but she looked kind of AFC putting her number in my phone while I was clearly macking on someone else.
 
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