"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Getting good looking girls is easier after college than it is in college.

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I think that getting laid in college is easier than it would be in the real world, assuming you are going after 5s and 6s. In my experience, getting laid in college is easy if you are going after girls with average to slightly above average looks. Now here is the catch. College is a closed environment, meaning it is pretty much like high school except most kids are without parents.

I notice that most of the good looking girls at your typical school are in a sorority and they are inaccessible to the general population. So no matter how much game or looks you might have, if you don't have the status you are going to fail. The only kind of guys I hear of that bang the good looking girls in sororities are football players or guys from top tier fraternities.

Now in the real world, it would seem like game, personality, looks, and all those things start to matter much more. Reason being that the good looking are no longer under pressure to please their classmates and their reputation in a sorority.

This is just what I have gathered, what are your thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well, my school didn't have a football team or the Greek system, but I do know that the basketball and soccer teams got their pick of the litter, while the top tier party guys group got the others. The rest were mostly down to individual social circles with girls in the range of 5-7. 1-4 were getting f*cked too by the desperate chums, and many guys just never got laid the whole time.

Are you out of college? Do you have experience with the real world? I wouldn't just assume it's easier. It's mostly just different. If you make an effort, then yeah you should be able to get hotter girls. You can't just let them come to you tho, they will not find you.
 

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I had/have an easier time getting girls in college now than when I was in college. But also its easier than college was as I wasn't in any high status activities, nor did I belong to a fraternity of any sort. Since leaving my game got better and I worked out, so even later on I managed to get some college girls.

But yeah overall its easier. But as has been said on other threads, your access to the younger demographic does decrease. At the present its mostly 25+, but sometimes a bit younger. It really all depends on who you are hanging out with and once you are in the real world, that age increases.
 

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Canterbury Storytell said:
I think that getting laid in college is easier than it would be in the real world, assuming you are going after 5s and 6s. In my experience, getting laid in college is easy if you are going after girls with average to slightly above average looks.
5s and 6s aren't worth it imo, especially if ur new to the game. Those are the worst ones on terms of playing games, being a former slut, carouseling and flaking. If a girl is a 5-6, I guarantee you she has been with at LEAST 10 guys. Guaranteed. It's gender dynamics in action, if ur new at the game ur better off going after less attractive or either a 7 or above - average and above average is where you will definitely find the problems
 
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synergy1 said:
I had/have an easier time getting girls in college now than when I was in college. But also its easier than college was as I wasn't in any high status activities, nor did I belong to a fraternity of any sort. Since leaving my game got better and I worked out, so even later on I managed to get some college girls.

But yeah overall its easier. But as has been said on other threads, your access to the younger demographic does decrease. At the present its mostly 25+, but sometimes a bit younger. It really all depends on who you are hanging out with and once you are in the real world, that age increases.
well that is a pretty good point you bring up right there.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I never got laid before college.
 

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Probably depends on where you study.

There's no Greek system here; no sororities or frats or dorms, for that matter(even though we do have largish buildings dedicated to student apartments, just not on the campus area). It's mostly about social circles and those are quite easy to manage, being that everyone drinks every now and then(and usually in between) and alcohol is perhaps the most effective icebreaker there is.

Also, I think it might depend on the "college culture" of your particular country. Is it more about partying and getting laid than studying and networking? How is the university structured? How are the student events organized, if there are any? How is the social pyramid(so to say) built? Who's on the top?
 
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I feel so jealous about schools and universities that have no greek life, because once you go to schools that have greek life, you are excluded for not being a part of the greek life.
 
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I feel so jealous about schools and universities that have no greek life, because once you go to schools that have greek life, you are excluded for not being a part of the greek life.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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