"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting girls with talent?

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Ok another one about that lecturer blah blah one iis blah blah im a wuss. Right helpfull advice now.

I have a strong talent in the design sence and this woman is closly linked to that subject too i wownt go into detail, do you think there is any way i could grab her attention with my work as i know where and when she is teaching. If so please help.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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just ask her out, dude. you are beginning to rationalize things. you are trying to find a good EXCUSE for asking her out, besides the fact that you like her.

i mean what are you gonna do, draw a puppy for her?
 
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Well i dont know, im not that good at the whole acting cool thing. If something makes it a little easier and it provides me with a bit more confidence then its got to be betterthan being less confident.
 
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Your "talent" should be directed more towards improving your spelling, punctuation and grammar.
 
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Yes im very dsylexic i apologise if my writing is difficult to understand.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes, talents such as art, design, music, WHATEVER can be attractive to MANY types of women, especially someone interested in the spesific talent you have.
 
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Originally posted by popcorn
Well i dont know, im not that good at the whole acting cool thing. If something makes it a little easier and it provides me with a bit more confidence then its got to be betterthan being less confident.
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it's not about "acting" cool. it's about "being" cool. you are presently being "uncool".

tell me? what's going to happen when you meet up with another chick you're interested in? the exact same thing if you don't reverse course.

and yes, please work on your grammar, it's slop. grammar is a reflection on who you are. this is a fact.
 
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