"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok another one about that lecturer blah blah one iis blah blah im a wuss. Right helpfull advice now.

I have a strong talent in the design sence and this woman is closly linked to that subject too i wownt go into detail, do you think there is any way i could grab her attention with my work as i know where and when she is teaching. If so please help.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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just ask her out, dude. you are beginning to rationalize things. you are trying to find a good EXCUSE for asking her out, besides the fact that you like her.

i mean what are you gonna do, draw a puppy for her?
 
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Well i dont know, im not that good at the whole acting cool thing. If something makes it a little easier and it provides me with a bit more confidence then its got to be betterthan being less confident.
 
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Your "talent" should be directed more towards improving your spelling, punctuation and grammar.
 
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Yes im very dsylexic i apologise if my writing is difficult to understand.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes, talents such as art, design, music, WHATEVER can be attractive to MANY types of women, especially someone interested in the spesific talent you have.
 
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Originally posted by popcorn
Well i dont know, im not that good at the whole acting cool thing. If something makes it a little easier and it provides me with a bit more confidence then its got to be betterthan being less confident.
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it's not about "acting" cool. it's about "being" cool. you are presently being "uncool".

tell me? what's going to happen when you meet up with another chick you're interested in? the exact same thing if you don't reverse course.

and yes, please work on your grammar, it's slop. grammar is a reflection on who you are. this is a fact.
 
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