"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hi, I am new here and I need help from you guys.

I am working on 2(HB 6.5 and 7.5) girls in my class(College) that I always wanted to talk to. Today I managed to get both their numbers because we had an Extra Credit Homework that encourages groupwork.

I had some fluff talk with 6.5 but none with 7.5 yet.

I was suppose to meet up with 7.5 today after class to do Homework but our class got out late and she has to go to a dance. So she told me she had a busy schedule next week and only available mon and wed after 1.50pm. So i said ok we will do it next week and told her to call me after class.

Bad move? because we havent talked too much at all and I dont think she is comfortable with it. The class is once a week, so I wont get to see her until 2 weeks from now because of Thanksgiving. And the Finals are coming up after that.


Advice? Call her on monday?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lust

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San Jose California said:
study with her then make-out.

That reminds me of a question that I don't want to create a thread for: anyone have an article that gives tips on escalating to a make-out when a girl is studying at your place? It's got to be somewhere.
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Attraction through fluffy talk/jokes/subtle DHVs ---> comfort + investment + KINO ESCALATE.

then you can pretty much just go for it.

There is no "touch her here, then say this, then rub her here, look at her like this and go for a kiss" bs, you just have to develop a sense.
 
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If I were in your situation I would abadon HB 7.5 unless you guys are actually working on a group project together and your grade relies on you two working together. If not (just off the top of my head, I don't know you situation through and through) I would next her. Not that it's impossible...not by anymeans. But I would say a waste of time.

Why not expand beyond these two girls. Build up your "portfolio" so to say. Try for that HB8 or 9 you see around (and I know you do)

Expect to fail. Don't let it bother you...shrug and move on. ;)
 
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Warped I do agree with you to drop her. But I want to give it a shot and try and ask her out. So I can learn from this experience. Even if I dont get a date, I tried.

2 Months ago I got oneitis on another girl and became major AFC. So I need more experience in the field.
 
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