"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting girls to lose their virginity to you without becoming a bf.

the pokemaster

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im a virgin. and i want to lose that. theirs loads of other virgin girls. but i really don't want a gf. any tips on how to ge t around that.

i was thinking if you were to get a girl reaaallly turned on u could do it anywhere lol.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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find a girl who's looking for the same thing.. in other words: get a girl who only wants sex not a bf.. just make sure you directly or indirectly mention u aint lookin for anything serious or else it could get ugly
 

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So basically, you're looking for girls who are virgins who will have sex with you, but won't get attached or clingy in the least bit?

Good luck. Let me know how that works out for you.
 

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It won't happen bro. If you want sex thoguh...whys she gotta be a virgin? Virgins gonna be a bad lay anyways. Learn from a pro hahah[well not a slut, but someone whose experienced would be more fun I assume, i'm also a virgin though].
yeah.
 

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when i was 15, i had that same problem too. guess what? i had to meet a girl i wanted to have a LTR with, in order to lose my virginity. i'm sorry, but you have to be a great don juan in order to make teens wanting to have sex with you without a steady relationship. and i doubt that you can be a great don juan if you don't have sex

it's a vicious circle
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wow, I could never even get myself to have sex with my girlfriend of 7 months without feeling bad. But then again, I'm Christian.

Well, setting aside all my beliefs, I'll give you some advice. If you're virginity's not very precious to you, just lose it to someone who you know is very experienced with sex. (Not exactly a slut) but someone who knows what they're doing. You'll have a lot better memorable experience if you do that. I'm gonna be straight with you d00d, if you have sex with a virgin somehow, she's more than likely gonna become attached to you. If you're looking for a one night stand easy lay, go look for a *****. They won't mind at all. But I guarantee you're going to regret it afterwords.


Wait a while, go out with someone and get to know her, then give it up. It's a lot better to lose it to someone you really care about than trying to seek out someone to just have sex with.
 

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lol sorry guys.
i dont actually mind if a girl is clingy to me afterwards. surely thats good (more sex) lol.
its just that most the girls i know ARE virgins.
But i think im gonna go for a girl who isn't.
Theres this girl in the year above ;)

Is it possible to get a girl horny enough to make her wanna f*ck you without you having any serious relationship before hand ESPECIALLY if shes a virgin, thats what i meant.
How do you do it?

Elti Boi
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any girl you do it with the first time you will have a emotional attachment with forever.the girls emotional attachment will be at least twice as big as your assuming you arent a totally afc after you have sex. sex isnt something you do the first time and you forget about it.
 

Jay-X

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Originally posted by Elti Boi

Is it possible to get a girl horny enough to make her wanna f*ck you without you having any serious relationship before hand ESPECIALLY if shes a virgin, thats what i meant.
How do you do it?
actually, it's possible, but you have to be lucky/experienced.
i'm a senior and this year 2 freshmen approached me and offered me a threesome, even though 1 of them was virgin. this happened the first day i got to know them, but they were super attracted (they were the ones who approached me, not vice versa) and super slutty (they both had boyfriends)

anyway, i don't think it's that easy, you have to be super lucky
 

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Yeh i always have girls that let me experiment with them. Like i have this **** buddy. only because she likes me. i told her i just want to be friends but with privilages. so yeh thats how u gotta be. Sex isnt really that great . masterbating feels better.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ahh yes. Friends with benifits. I knew this one girl in the grade above me and she was supa dupa hot and like gothic. But hot. She wanted me and was very easy and experienced. If I wasn't an AFC I could of had her.

But to address your topic the only way is to find a nympho in highschool. Might be a little hard (no pun intended:) but there are a ton of super hot sluts in the upper grades. Just keep yur eyes out and if you really want to lose your virginity then join Band. Those band camp stories are all too true.

Now I lost my virginity years ago and I do it quite often. But my partner is kind of attached, being my hand and all.
 

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Originally posted by 08aisaac

Now I lost my virginity years ago and I do it quite often.
my congratulations man, you are 15 and you did it YEARS AGO:)
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
my congratulations man, you are 15 and you did it YEARS AGO:)
I think you missed the punchline.

Anyway, while it IS possible to do that, you are going to have to be very lucky, like Jay-X said. There ARE virgin girls who wouldn't mind "just losing it."
 
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