Getting girls to come in after dinner date

[Crissco]

\Had a girl over tonight. We made out for a while then went to grab something to eat.

Im going to give her the benfit of the doubt that she was tired bc she worked all day and we stayed up on the phone all night.

She went home after dinner, what are some good techinuqes/tactics to get her to come in after dinner?

 

[runner83]

Rule 1 - Don't spend all of the previous night up on the phone with her.

Rule 2 - Have something interesting in the place that you can show her.


Ultimately though, it's just a reflection of how into you she is.

If she is really into you, you can say anything and she'll want to come in.

If she's not into you, you can say anything and she won't come in.

Another scenario is when you're going to her place. Girls can often be a bit more forward then since it's their place you are going into.

 

[imservin22]

met a girl yesterday who was friends with my buddy while we were working this festival. event was lame so hollered at this girl and got her #. I teased her a little bit, but I was still technically on the clock so not as much as I would have normally, got her # as she was leaving. girl seems cool, not sure how much initial interest I developed. want to isolate, i work a lot, she's in college. what to do next?

 

[ENIGMA16]

There's a reason "Do you want to come up for some coffee?" at midnight works, and it's because it doesn't fvcking matter what you say. If the girl is interested enough to fvck she's not going to care what you ask her to get her over to your place.

Last night I met up with a girl at a bar and was just like "So you coming over or what" and she came over and we fvcked.

But if you want to know some good ideas, I bring girls to this bar right by my house all the time, so it's just a 2 block walk to my house. Well, actually, I did til I started fvcking a server there. Worst idea EVER.

Also, like the best date idea ever is to bring a girl to a deli, buy some sandwiches, and bring them back to your house and eat them. This works wonders because it's probably something she's never done before, it's an original idea (i.e. a guy has probably never taken her to a deli to buy sandwiches to eat elsewhere) and it gets her to your house so you don't even have to worry about that.

 

[Crissco]

I realize that. Funny part is, she still texting me like crazy, good morning texting. Thiking about u...I know shes a big gamer even though she cant keep up with me, besides the point....Maybe she likes to play with guys emotions, or just a confused girl in general?