Emotionally violent that is...
Most men give up or get scared when a woman shows token resistance such as recoiling or scowling when say, you hold their hand flirtily or say something seductive during the course of discussing with them. This can break the spirit of many a man and cause them to go into hiding in their man cave/ turtle shell.
The key to moving past this is to realize that 9 times out of 10 it's gonna happen anyway especially when you haven't built enough familiarity with the woman beforehand (e.g. in speed seduction situations such as in the club).
You have to be able to laugh at yourself AND her and lighten the mood in times like that. Alternatively you could use emotional state manipulation by barking back at her like some guys do but that's not necessarily the best approach.
At times like those you have to humble yourself, leave your ego at the door by expecting an antislut defence response and put the girls mind at ease by not sulking when she recoils but ignoring that behaviour by changing the topic for a few seconds like what she's doing is no big deal (which it isn't), staying in the tense moment with a smirk and continuing the conversation in a different direction but on the same path of seduction OR toning things down for a bit then restoking the flame of seduction.
An example of this;
You: So.... (holds girls hand) where's the afterparty?
Girl: What kind of girl do you take me for?
You: I haven't decided yet *smirk*
Her: Gets shy or gives you a naughty look cos she knows you get it.
You just gotta be subtle and read the situation and adjust accordingly. You never want to give off the vibe that the interaction is a do or die affair. Be playful cos It's not anyway cos there's always another woman who will say yes. You just have to train yourself to believe that mindset. Some guys don't live in the loser reality and they do okay because of that reason. You shouldn't either.
You can either accept that it's the nature of the majority of women to give token resistance even church girls or you can keep doing the same thing expecting different results.
Logic should also tell you that Michael Jordan missed game winning shots but still made it so there is never a guarantee of 100% success only 100% failure if you fold your arms in defeat and are inactive.
Of course all this is useless if you are outcome dependendent and have not put your best foot forward by being neat and hygienic.
What are YOUR go to ways of dealing with dramatic knockbacks?
Most men give up or get scared when a woman shows token resistance such as recoiling or scowling when say, you hold their hand flirtily or say something seductive during the course of discussing with them. This can break the spirit of many a man and cause them to go into hiding in their man cave/ turtle shell.
The key to moving past this is to realize that 9 times out of 10 it's gonna happen anyway especially when you haven't built enough familiarity with the woman beforehand (e.g. in speed seduction situations such as in the club).
You have to be able to laugh at yourself AND her and lighten the mood in times like that. Alternatively you could use emotional state manipulation by barking back at her like some guys do but that's not necessarily the best approach.
At times like those you have to humble yourself, leave your ego at the door by expecting an antislut defence response and put the girls mind at ease by not sulking when she recoils but ignoring that behaviour by changing the topic for a few seconds like what she's doing is no big deal (which it isn't), staying in the tense moment with a smirk and continuing the conversation in a different direction but on the same path of seduction OR toning things down for a bit then restoking the flame of seduction.
An example of this;
You: So.... (holds girls hand) where's the afterparty?
Girl: What kind of girl do you take me for?
You: I haven't decided yet *smirk*
Her: Gets shy or gives you a naughty look cos she knows you get it.
You just gotta be subtle and read the situation and adjust accordingly. You never want to give off the vibe that the interaction is a do or die affair. Be playful cos It's not anyway cos there's always another woman who will say yes. You just have to train yourself to believe that mindset. Some guys don't live in the loser reality and they do okay because of that reason. You shouldn't either.
You can either accept that it's the nature of the majority of women to give token resistance even church girls or you can keep doing the same thing expecting different results.
Logic should also tell you that Michael Jordan missed game winning shots but still made it so there is never a guarantee of 100% success only 100% failure if you fold your arms in defeat and are inactive.
Of course all this is useless if you are outcome dependendent and have not put your best foot forward by being neat and hygienic.
What are YOUR go to ways of dealing with dramatic knockbacks?