"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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getting girls in hs vs. college

gsj23421

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if i flirt and talk to girls 99% of the time in person and I only text to set up a meet am i on the right track? my "text game" sucks but i'm great at flirting in person. all the flirting i use, from explicit sexual flirting, to negs, to subtle flirty comments seems to get girls to respond positively but im not sure if my techniques will work in college. am i on the right track for getting girls in college or do i need to really improve my text game first? btw im a junior in h.s. also im just worried that with my texting game being so bad if i text a girl for anything other than setting up a meet i will get friendzoned. please give me some advice. also im really confident and can easily get a girls number so self confidence is not an issue.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Eph

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Why is this in the tips section?
 
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