if i flirt and talk to girls 99% of the time in person and I only text to set up a meet am i on the right track? my "text game" sucks but i'm great at flirting in person. all the flirting i use, from explicit sexual flirting, to negs, to subtle flirty comments seems to get girls to respond positively but im not sure if my techniques will work in college. am i on the right track for getting girls in college or do i need to really improve my text game first? btw im a junior in h.s. also im just worried that with my texting game being so bad if i text a girl for anything other than setting up a meet i will get friendzoned. please give me some advice. also im really confident and can easily get a girls number so self confidence is not an issue.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
getting girls in hs vs. college
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
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"techniques" hah 
Read Conquer Your Campus if youre worried. College is easy, but it's all social.
Read Conquer Your Campus if youre worried. College is easy, but it's all social.