"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well guys just got in form a local club and all i can say is WOW!

Only the second time ever i've been to a club and i made out with 4, got 7 numbers and got short kisses on the lips by another 3.

For an hour i approached none...i pulled three in the next 45 mins. In that time i thought i would observe other guys to see how they played the game, i kid you not a 5ft 7 GINGER GUY kissed atleast three hb 8's in the first 30 mins. The girls were all over him! Because he wasnt afraid and was simply enjoying himself.

He was no where near me in height or looks yet he was getting the girls..why was this? Because he was one of only a few guys in the generally HAVING FUN. He was dancing with girls he was cracking jokes and this was getting him action.

Many people complain that clubs are not good places to meet women, all you gotta do is dance, seriously its THAT simple you get her away from her mates and grind way up close to her and she's yours.

Now i'm no dance pro, infact i'd say i'm pretty poor. Just mirror what she does, pull her close to you, hey even sing some of the song thats playing in her ear. But for god sake don't stand there like a fool, make sure you show intent from the go, if your dancing slip your hand over her bits, chances are she wants to do the same but is waiting for you to make the first move.

The only problem is that if you don't initiate when your dancing chances are another guy will grap her from you, yes, this happend to me lol but everyone makes mistakes right?

Thanks to everyone at so suave for the great advice i have had..its really helped! :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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7 numbers ...wow good job mate :up: ..Ive been out too where i thought i was one of the sharpest guys in the clubs but i was getting no action while average looking guys were all on HBS .why...cause all me and my mates were just standing with beers in our hands and looking..good advice about getting out there and dancing
 
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You nailed it, man, well done. This is exactly the attitude you need to be successful in clubs. :up:

Some advice: in my experience, getting numbers in clubs is a waste of time. If you are into one night stands, a club is the perfect venue to pull them if you escalate. In my early days, I would often get so excited about the validation received from making out with a hot chick in a club that I would get scared of being blown out so I would cop out by asking for the number instead of pushing on for the lay. Don't fall into that trap.
 
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LeComteDeMonteCristo said:
You nailed it, man, well done. This is exactly the attitude you need to be successful in clubs. :up:

Some advice: in my experience, getting numbers in clubs is a waste of time. If you are into one night stands, a club is the perfect venue to pull them if you escalate. In my early days, I would often get so excited about the validation received from making out with a hot chick in a club that I would get scared of being blown out so I would cop out by asking for the number instead of pushing on for the lay. Don't fall into that trap.
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AMEN to that how many times have i made out hot and heavy with a chick in the club only to get the # and then have her flake harder than a box of frosted flakes..lol..STRIKE WHILE THE IRON IS HOT...these girls will pull a harry houdini on you
 
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Thanks for the comments guys! Yeah i can see what you mean about the numbers thing...my attitude is to take everything as a positive.

1) Went Out. Increased my chances of meeting girls rather than staying at home watching movies or something.

2) Approached Girls. Most guys there didnt have the balls to even do this! Each approach gives me experience, thus hopefully increasing social skills and game.

3) Got Girls To Dance With Me. Shows I have created at least some interest in them, and i'm enjoying myself by grinding.

4) Make Out. Checkmate! Speaks for itself really this is fantasic for me compared to where I was several months ago. Gives you an ego boost and improves your kissing. Do you know how good it feels to have girls vertually suck my face off? haha. At one point i rememeber thinking 'Jeez! when is she gonna stop?'

5) Number. Yeah people don't put huge emphisis on this, but in my view out of 7 numbers in just over 4 hours at least ONE of them will be up for meeting me again. Having options is great! I wouldn't mind if half of them blew me off because i know i can just go out and get more girls.

I would be more than willing to take things further because no one can take away my numbers or my make out, its more than worth the chance!

After the make out and the number i would go on the look out for more girls, yeah i think some of them were abit cheesed off i remember hearing one girl say to a girl i was with 'Have you made out aswell??'

Any more advice on getting girls in the club?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm too old and muscular to dance.
 
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