Getting girl while having no life

[190cmofcancer]

Being a Nolife is against any common sense, against DJ Bible and s*cks and so on. I know. I once, or twice, had life. For couple years. I know how entertaining it can be.

BUT.

I need to be one. I'm learning programming. There's a lot to learn and I'm behind my peers. I spend 12 hours on PC each day and my progress isn't even fast. I need to do that. I NEED.

My body/posture/face is not bad and I guess I am able to attract some. But what do I say? Should I lie about myself? I guess I should.

What would you guys recommend? My aim is important for me and I can Delay the lovely social life I should have right now for my aim. But problem is that I don't want to delay living life with women.

 

[resilient]

They say you should get up from sitting at the computer all day to stretch and walk around. Why not do a mini-exercise routine at the end of every hour of those 12 hours on the PC.

• 10 push ups
• 10 sit ups
• 10 burpees
• 10 jumping jacks
• 60 seconds planking

You get the idea. Make up your own get up and stretch routine or see this one that I use.

I've been a career transition the last two years and have another two to three to go before I've successfully transitioned to my new field. I work full-time and do school full-time online. I still find time to socialize.

I complained about it once in a PM to @Poon King and his reply was/is timeless:

You say you don't have time to spin plates? FALSE. There is always time spin plates. Remember that you should always be bringing women into YOUR world.. not going into theirs. So no matter how busy you get.. at some point you need to go home, shower and sleep. This is when you invite your plates over for sex, TV, dinner and company.

There is ALWAYS time to spin plates if you're dictating the terms of the relationship. Only when you pander, chase and follow a woman's lead do you "not have time". ​

 

[190cmofcancer]

They say you should get up from sitting at the computer all day to stretch and walk around. Why not do a mini-exercise routine at the end of every hour of those 12 hours on the PC.

• 10 push ups
• 10 sit ups
• 10 burpees
• 10 jumping jacks
• 60 seconds planking

You get the idea. Make up your own get up and stretch routine or see this one that I use.

I've been a career transition the last two years and have another two to three to go before I've successfully transitioned to my new field. I work full-time and do school full-time online. I still find time to socialize.

I complained about it once in a PM to @Poon King and his reply was/is timeless:

You say you don't have time to spin plates? FALSE. There is always time spin plates. Remember that you should always be bringing women into YOUR world.. not going into theirs. So no matter how busy you get.. at some point you need to go home, shower and sleep. This is when you invite your plates over for sex, TV, dinner and company.

There is ALWAYS time to spin plates if you're dictating the terms of the relationship. Only when you pander, chase and follow a woman's lead do you "not have time". ​

Oh pook is some sort of hero.. Great advice What I meant in my first post is that I learn on my own. I dont work nor study because I havent passed exams + internet guides are up to date while in universities (at least in my country) they teach u deprecated version of language that was used 10 years ago.

Thing is I choose to not socialise to learn it quicker, so I can quicker finish learning, find a job, and socialise.

And I dont know what to tell women when they ask me what you are doing "im sitting all life home" doesnt sound good.

 

[FairShake]

Sometimes there's more to life than women.
You won't be programming for 12 hours a day forever. Priorities.

 

[resilient]

@Poon King and @Pook are two different users.

Agree with @FairShake, your intentions come down to your priorities. Your answer "I'm sitting all life home" is indeed a boring response. Think/brainstorm of interesting ways to talk about what you do for fun and use mystery and intrigue to your advantage.

Better yet, find cool stuff to do at home as hobbies that you're passionate about beyond the 12 hour PC session. Don't use long computer internet guides as your excuse to not socialize.

I work and study full time and still find time for the daily gym workouts, guitar sessions, and weekly social events.