Have you ever had a girl that showed mild or little interest, then got jealous when you started seeing other people, so you go back and give her a try, and have it turn into an LTR? Or does the fact it takes jealousy to get her interested show it won't really work for anything other than short term?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Getting girl jealous to turn into LTR
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- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Ive used jealousy a couple of times and pulled girls into STR and LTR. (More STR because I seem to have a problem with commitment and duck out within a couple months normally). They were digging me anyway though so Its not really a solid answer. Definitely makes them a little insecure about where they stand with you.
I used to run a bar and was therefore being paid to flirt with chicks - Any girls I was seeing came in, they would instantly look worried. Poor girls worked hard to keep me, but free spirit that I am, I liked to take advantage of my options
Sorry, rambling. basically a little jealousy will do you no harm. Make her compete - or at least feel that she may have some competition. However long the relationship lasts isn't going to change just because her interest level spiked over a little jealousy.
All things have a time limit, dont go worrying about how long it will last - just ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE WHILE YOU HAVE IT.
I used to run a bar and was therefore being paid to flirt with chicks - Any girls I was seeing came in, they would instantly look worried. Poor girls worked hard to keep me, but free spirit that I am, I liked to take advantage of my options
Sorry, rambling. basically a little jealousy will do you no harm. Make her compete - or at least feel that she may have some competition. However long the relationship lasts isn't going to change just because her interest level spiked over a little jealousy.
All things have a time limit, dont go worrying about how long it will last - just ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE WHILE YOU HAVE IT.