"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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getting further on first date.

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sportf190

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hey guys this may be stupid ive had alot of girls this month that i have gotten... but again my problem is i cant get in their pants.... is this common for you guys on ur first date or is it just me? kissing and touching boobies isnt enough any morel ol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't rush the first date.. Damn. Make her feel comfortable first then go out on a second and third date. Then just hangout and isolate her.
 
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Some guidelines :)

sportf190 said:
hey guys this may be stupid ive had alot of girls this month that i have gotten... but again my problem is i cant get in their pants.... is this common for you guys on ur first date or is it just me? kissing and touching boobies isnt enough any morel ol
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im glad to hear that you are GOING FOR IT.. im referin to trying to get into pants, and as long as your doing that your doing everythng right.. The rest, maybe timming,... however here are some guidelines.

1)If she likes you TOO much (i.e. sees you as relationship material) she may think relationship wont work if you hook up on first date, cause you might think she will think she is a slut (This actually can be overcome, with things like, say "for me its usually or nothing, its rare that I meat someone I want, you are amazing" then proceed to pants.. and also do the "im not doing anything, its just a little skin" while you pulling down the pants :)
2)if she doesnt like you enough, this actually may be good, just make sure she has another drink and NO FOOD (food sucks up alcohol) loosen her up and have your one night stand...
3)She is in a break up or a relationship, use the link in 1) with combo of 2), and then also throw in some compliments, "he doesnt know what his missing"
4)If you feel she is just too conservative, try to place her hand on your d.ick and see if she starts stroking it, if not, stroke it with her hand,, pull it out of your pants and put her mouth on your belly, and then slowly have her work down...
5)If just cant happen, at end of night, tell her "you are fine babe I had a great time, hope to see you again" and then DONT CALL HER for 3 days
After 3 days, go out with her, make sure you have alcohol invloved, and after a clean place with music and this time, hit it.. if she still doesn want to say"look I really like you, and if it will take me to wait to have you, i am willing to do that cause your a really cool girl" then back off, and then.. TRY IT AGAIN :)
this off and on, and at latest 2 weeks u will get it.. keep in mind, keep dating other girls in between and remember which stage you left with with a girl and continue...
 
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i never had alcohol involved lol thats the problem then.. also number 1 is the biggest one i dont want relationships but if i dont say it then they prob wont talk to me kinda gay huh
 
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