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getting fuct on ebay?

Lost

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I emailed this guy about shipping for a guitar about 2-3 days ago. then 3 times yesterday and once today.
He still hasnt responded to one. And i won the bid.
wtf?
 

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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Lost
I emailed this guy about shipping for a guitar about 2-3 days ago. then 3 times yesterday and once today.
He still hasnt responded to one. And i won the bid.
wtf?
It's the holiday season...they might be away for a few days.
 

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It's not like you paid for it yet, so I wouldn't call it 'fuct'. Give the seller a few days (7 is acceptable). On the 4th day, let him know that if he hasn't responded by the 7th that you will leave negative feedback. If he hasn't contacted you by the 10th, go ahead and leave a negative.

Or, you can request his contact information. Go to Help in the eBay tabs, and type "request seller contact". Input the item number and the seller's user ID and it will email you a copy of his telephone number and other information. Use this to reach him directly.
 

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My mate lost just under $1000 purchasing an item.

Seller took the money, never sent the item, and one year later this guy is still out of pocket.

Couldnt track the seller, apparently...

So yeah, you can get fuct on ebay, but I wouldnt worry about your situation just yet.
 

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Originally posted by TheRelic
My mate lost just under $1000 purchasing an item.
His own fault. Next time he should use a major credit card. If in the event he's ripped off, he can file a chargeback on the transaction and recieve his money back from the CC company.
 

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by diablo
His own fault. Next time he should use a major credit card. If in the event he's ripped off, he can file a chargeback on the transaction and recieve his money back from the CC company.
True dat.

Credit card companies and banks operate by using digital #'s, which don't mean **** all. It's not real money to them, its monopoly money. You lose a grand on Ebay, but you used their credit card? Who cares, they sure as hell don't. It takes one click of a mouse to give you that money back, and another to make you a millionaire.
 
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