Getting frustrated

[azure123]

So I've been going out with this girl for awhile now, and she enjoys receiving oral sex, but hardly gives any to me. I'm getting really frustrated with this because I sometimes have to forcefully ask for one. By me doing this makes her feel as if I'm just wanting her physically which is unfair for me. She thinks I take pleasure in giving it to her, which is somewhat true because it makes her happy, but I think she should know by now its a give and take kind of thing. Don't worry, I always wash up down there and is always clean.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

You need to stop behaving like a ***** and assert yourself as a man. It seems to me that your gf is the one that wears the pants in the relationship, she is the captain but it shouldn't be her it should be YOU! tell me what else does she make you do? does she make you waste your wages on clothe for her, food, movies, games?? then you ask for a measly bj and she says no!

Remember now that you should treat your gf well but never treat any girlfriend or any female like if they were queens to the point you are below her in status. This is a common mistake made by newbies. Relationships should be give and take with the man in charge. You shouldn't be giving if you ain't receiving, you shouldn't waste your time or money on any girl if you ain't getting what you want.

 

[DrSoSuave]

Just so you know there are some people that are either queasy about oral sex, they like it a lot, or they're indifferent about it. Whatever the issue is, you cannot demand or what the above poster has mentioned "give or take" - Some women are just not into it just like how some women are not into oral sex especially the ones that do not clean themselves after a long day of work (gag!)

 

[DJStudent]

Yeah it's true, some girls just don't like giving a bj for a number of reason none of which I think they can't fully control or understand.

I had a similar situation with one of my ex. She hated giving a bj but after me keeping telling her how much I enjoy what she did she actually gave me a few. I don't pressure her forcefully but I let her know how much I enjoy it and that the whole experience would be that much more if she go down.

I later found out she doesn't like the idea of choking on a d!ck. So I looked it up and it's Anginophobia or fear of chocking. It might not be a common fear but it's a fear and the major of victims tend to be girls.

So lay off your girl if she doesn't want to go down and if she's willing to make you happy by doing so don't expect.

 

[Alpine]

Simple.

Stop giving her oral. When she askes why, say you don't like it, but you'll do it if she really wants. Do this everytime.

When you ask, see how much more willing she is. Don't force her. Start backing off her if she doesn't get into it. If she asks say, you like a girl who enjoys giving blow jobs.

Give it a few weeks. If you think it's that important to you in your relationship to get a ******* from someone who's willing, then maybe you need to move on.