Getting flaked on by escorts

[edger]

Who the hell would think, right? I think this can turn out to be a good discussion. For those of you who have never met up with an escort, let me clarify how it works: You call her up and arrange a meet-up time at her place. Over the phone, she tells you the street where she's located and gives you a cross street. She tells you to call once you get to her street and the cross street. When you get there, she gives you her house/apartment address, and you know what happens from there.

But I've had quite a few experiences where once I've pulled up to her street and called to get her apartment/house address, they've never answered their phone..and I was left hanging, and forced to turn around and head back home. I can't understand why an escort would do that though. I know I don't sound like a creep over the phone, so that part can be ruled out. These experiences have made me realize that not only will a regular chick play games, but also EVEN an escort herself. I can't understand why an escort would go out of her way to maliciously play games like that. Don't forget too, these women get paid good money.

I find this very interesting. Any thoughts? I'd like to hear them. My buddy has had the same happen with him before.

 

[Paradox]

If you are using an escort who advertises alot she probably got another caller who lived closer.

She might be serving another customer when you called back

Maybe she saw your car and got spooked.

Maybe she got a call to do an outcall that is close to her home.

Maybe she got a better offer. If you book for a 1/2 hour and someone else wants an hour which one do you think she would choose?

Maybe one of her regular customers called. She would probably give preference to a regular.

Maybe she decided she needed a break.

Maybe she is poor at scheduling

 

[Colossus]

Not that it's any of my business, but why are you using a prostitute?

 

[Metro3pilot]

Trying having her come to your house.

 

[MatureDJ]

She just got a bigger and better deal, and has a lack of character (but being a 'ho, that is a given), making her date with you not the best thing she could do with her time.

Look, a 'ho is just one step up the scale from a professional dater (i.e., a woman who lets a man spend money on her wining and dining) who figures that rather than get a night on the town, with the money being spent on consumption per your direction, she would rather get the cold hard cash so she can spend it per her direction. In exchange for this power over the spending of the money, the good stuff at the end of the evening is guaranteed.

Now with that said, it is pretty bad that men who try to pay for sex are getting flaked on. I guess you will just have to next her. (Golly, the idea of nexting a 'ho is so freaking funny.)

 

[Rudra]

traffic now that was friggin funny mate)))))

 

[edger]

Maybe she saw your car and got spooked.

I'd rule that out, because they don't know which car I'm in. When I call, my car is a block away.

 

[Latinoman]

Maybe she saw you from a distance and felt either freaked out or that you were a cop or whatever.

 

[edger]

Not that it's any of my business, but why are you using a prostitute?

No hard feelings, but that's actually a pretty dumb question. Think about what it's like to live in a guys shoes(even a guy who's both good-looking and has better game than the avg. guy) for a second, and maybe you'll get your answer.

 

[Latinoman]

No hard feelings, but that's actually a pretty dumb question. Think about what it's like to live in a guys shoes(even a guy who's both good-looking and has better game than the avg. guy) for a second, and maybe you'll get your answer.

I personally think you are overrating yourself. I don't honestly believe you are as good looking (at least from a woman's point of view) or has better game as you think. Especially if you are in your upper 20s and living in NY City. Honestly...if I was 28 and living in NY City...I would be getting laid at least once a week.

 

[edger]

Maybe she saw you from a distance and felt either freaked out or that you were a cop or whatever.

No, they don't even see me. Like I said, when I call, I'm not even in their vision, I'm a block away. There's no way they can see me.

 

[Latinoman]

Maybe it is what one of the guys already wrote. They had a "better" offer? That sucks.

 

[edger]

I personally think you are overrating yourself. I don't honestly believe you are as good looking (at least from a woman's point of view) or has better game as you think. Especially if you are in your upper 20s and living in NY City. Honestly...if I was 28 and living in NY City...I would be getting laid at least once a week.

I've had many hot women(and guys) over the years tell me I'm very good-looking. And it's even funny...I met up with this one hot escort a couple of months ago, and when she seen me, the first thing out of her mouth was, "What are you doing here? You're too good-looking to be here". She literally was annoyed that I was there. To cover up, I said I was there because I have a girlfriend and I had less of a chance of getting caught if I used an escort, as opposed to picking-up some random chick at a bar. Of course that was all a lie, I just had to say that to avoid feeling stupid. She believed it...or so she made it seem.

 

[edger]

Latinoman, you have to also understand something about NYC...it's not a city of "single" women as you believe. Believe me. Everytime I'm out, virtually all the women are with guys; guys who are either their f*ck buddies or boyfriends. And if they're not with their boyfriends or f*ck buddies, then they're with their male platonic friends...so it makes it virtually impossible to hook up. The last thing I'm gonna do is close in on a chick who's with a guy(s)..even if they're her platonic friends. I'd feel weird closing in on a chick who's with her male platonic friend. Plus, I don't get vibes most of the time from hot women while I'm out in the field. I usually try to go by "vibes", I rarely ever cold-approach, it depends on my mood. I have to be in the mood and right mind-frame to cold-approach a chick who isn't vibing me.

 

[guru1000]

Latinoman, you have to also understand something about NYC...it's not a city of "single" women as you believe. Believe me. Everytime I'm out, virtually all the women are with guys; guys who are either their f*ck buddies or boyfriends. .

Funny. Every night I go out, I pull in hot single women by the dozen.

Try the meat packing district. If you cannot pull over there, I doubt you have looks and game.

 

[edger]

Funny. Every night I go out, I pull in hot single women by the dozen.

Try the meat packing district. If you cannot pull over there, I doubt you have looks and game.

I don't know Guru, I'm just telling you what I'm observing and experiencing. I'll check out the meat packing district this weekend. What bars/clubs do you recommend? I'm not too familiar with many of the places in that area besides 'Lotus' and 'Hogs and Heifers'. I'm usually on Orchard St., Ludlow, 2nd Ave, Ave A, Ave C, and Varick St.(Don Hills).

 

[edger]

NYC (esp Manhattan) is crawling and festered with

HOT (hotter than you've ever seen)

You've got that right! NYC=the HOTTEST women that I've seen so far.

 

[betterthandead]

no hard feelings, but that's a dumb answer to a valid question

No hard feelings, but that's actually a pretty dumb question. Think about what it's like to live in a guys shoes(even a guy who's both good-looking and has better game than the avg. guy) for a second, and maybe you'll get your answer.

 

[edger]

But dude, Orchard and Ludlow are total sausage fest explosions. If you're looking for women the LES is the last place I would advise anyone to hit up...

I guess it depends on where you are on Orchard and Ludlow, as well as other spots on the Lower East Side. I can tell you for sure the spots that I hang out on, most of the time the chix are with guys who are either their f*ck buddies, boyfriends, or male platonic friends. So it makes it difficult to pull at those places.

 

[edger]

Meatpacking is more for the trendy high roller investment banker looking for a model. The girls look great but are extremely uptight.

If your a big dawg wearing an Armani suit, that area is yours for the taking. Places like Tenjune and Cielo are extremely elite and are less likely to let single guys inside (unless accompanied by a hotty). The Gansevort Hotel is a personal fav.

If your looking for more "chill" women, your best bet is sticking to the village or even Union Square. There are hotties and bars all over that place! All around 14th street, and NYU territory.

I find that super hot women in Manhattan are extremely fashion oriented/materialistic when it comes to selecting males. If I wear anything from Bloomingdales its like every hot woman is on my di**!

Get yourself a pair of Rock and Republic jeans, some gucci shoes, and a white V neck polo undershirt and you'll be RAPED by hot NYC women!

These women in the meat packing district dress very provacative. I've noticed that the ones who go to the "high roller places"(the materialistic gold-diggers) typically tend to be the ones who dress the most provacative.

supranormal hot women (hottest imaginable) are walking around with rich 80 year old millionaires on the Upper East Side. Haha, that's life.

It's called prostitution.