"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Getting Fed Up with People

Ice882

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BigWillyStyle said:
Ice882, you're a dumb c*nt. Rather than hurl virulent abuse, how about just sticking to answering my questions. Better still, stick to the highschool forum, boy. ****ing little idiot.

Everybody else, thank you for your comments.
Everyone else said the same thing, bud.

"Social anxiety"
"Paranoia"

those are things that you should get help for.

Let's see what I said....

"Get help". Seems pretty consistent.

Also, way to be far more hostile than I was in accusing me of being hostile.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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Also, remember the more haters you have, the better. If they considered themselves superior to you, why would they bother to hate on you? What would compel them to do so? Appearances aside, the vast majority of guys in the world are AFCs in all walks of life: professional, women, everything.

When a man makes up a mind to rise above, he also becomes a target. Remember the "barrel of crabs" analogy?
 

02hero

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I can relate to the OP on this.

Miserable b.astards will always try and drag you down to their level. It's quite funny as when you are really having a bad day you will tend to get left alone.
I find that when you're in a good mood, some tosser will try and mess with you. Usually they'll say something like; "Cheer up, it might never happen", or some s.hit like that.

Also it can work the other way around too. Like when you get some over the top, and obviously faked happiness from some self proclaimed 'wacky' idiot in an office. And the rest of the staff are rolling their eyes and thinking, oh please f.uck off with your false positivity, you're bringing the rest of us miserable f.uckers down with it. :D
 
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It's hard to believe you're complaining about other people being hostile when you do something like this. Sounds to me like you're the hostile one.

Basically all the girl did was give what you interpreted as a dirty look, and you cuss her out like a psycho. You have no idea what the girl was actually thinking or what she and the other girl were discussing. Sounds to me like you're paranoid. Even if she was glaring at you, she did not deserve the treatment you gave her. Not acceptable social behavior.
What the OP did is something I capable of doing. I've actually spat at a girl in a nightclub knocking her drink down my back and then laughing about it, I don't think that makes me a pyscho and neither is this man, he just needs to do what I do now and have happy thoughts, soaring doves and the usual works. He's got social paranoia though, I recommend you look into this OP:up:
 
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