"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting Enough Sleep And Being a PUA: Please Advise

mackdaddy27

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The last few nights I have been getting barely 3-4 hours of sleep a night.

It definetly affects my game, I can't hold a smile as well I have to force it, my brian and whole body feel really tired and its hard to continue the convo.


However, at the same time, if I sleep like 8 or 9 hours a day it feels like I am waisting time and that I could be doing something like sarging . Plus I work like 12 hours a day and goto the gym so I need to sleep less (max is 6-7 hours a time) to fit sarging into my schedule.

My opinion is , yes my game is way better and successful when I sleep. I want to get things done now, i am not very patient ...yes its really difficult to PUA with less hours of sleep, but I am not going to not be a PUA because I get my beauty sleep.

Please advise/provide your opinions !

Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MacAvoy

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Think about what your asking. I mean truly think about it. I honestly believe you know what the right answer is. Your smart enough that you don't need us to tell you.
 

schttrj

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dude, who is a PUA? a pick up artist who can pick up chicks randomly and without any effort at any time of the day.

so, when u r a PUA, u dont need the whole night to pick up girls, u just do it when u feel like it.

as for ur practice, i think it is better to take it slow, maybe every other night or every two nights is what u actually need right now. u need to get the game in grasp first of all and keep on improving it. why do u need to show ur friends that u are a man if u pull up 8 chicks instead of 3?
 
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