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Getting easy IOI: Is This Common? Do You Experience This Too?

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Her breathing pattern is the most reliable IOI, probably why they don't want you chest staring, the second your trying to figure out "Is this an IOI?" and she catches you doing it you would need to invoke a lot of interest to stay in the pocket, it's a measure of your hesitation

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Her breathing pattern is the most reliable IOI, probably why they don't want you chest staring, the second your trying to figure out "Is this an IOI?" and she catches you doing it you would need to invoke a lot of interest to stay in the pocket, it's a measure of your hesitation

Mirroring
You mean when they start to get short of breath in your presence.

I also notice it because at the same time they might get a little red in the face and their eyes take on a shape as if they were sick.
In fact it really seems like they are preparing for "fight or flight"
 

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Here are IOI’s I’m talking about. These all happened recently.

I was walking into a client facility. A girl came up to me and said: ‘Hi. How’s your day going?’

I was walking down a hallway in a medical office. A girl came up to me & said ; ‘Hi.’

Literally today. I finished a presentation at a client location. One of the attendees came up to me after and said ; ‘do you need any help putting your stuff away? I can hang out and help you if you want.’

I have a GF so I didn’t pursue, these might have just been friendly girls, not looking for anything. But. Seems positive.
 

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Oh tell more about this! Do some example.. I am italian and I don't know if I am on the right meaning for it.

Currently, this is what I understood as my third LTR was interested in, in addition to the obvious ones.
One day, we were alone together for 30 minutes doing a little work on a poster.
At some point, she started saying, "My head is spinning, maybe a drop in blood pressure."
From there I started to understand that she was verbalizing.. She was always short of breath in my presence.

A girl came up to me and said: ‘Hi. How’s your day going?’
When I was at the dentist, his female assistant, when we were alone, started asking me personal questions, and sat on the chair to listen to me.. So I said "I have a girlfriend" and showed her the ring.
She started laughing. She was interested
 

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When I was at the dentist, his female assistant, when we were alone, started asking me personal questions, and sat on the chair to listen to me.. So I said "I have a girlfriend" and showed her the ring.
She started laughing. She was interested
1. It is called bedside manners.

2. Don’t be so lame.
 

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I went to high school with a guy who topped out at 5'5"

He never had a problem getting girls. Girls would even physically fight over him.

His secret? He was a bad boy.

If you're a bad boy, that could explain why you're getting IOIs in spite of your 5'5" height.
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