"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Getting Drunk

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Alright, so, background;

I'm a Junior in HS. Recently, I've had my eye on this Freshman (HB8.5) who I've been talking to a lot. A couple weeks ago, me and a couple buddies got drunk, and I spent the night emailing her the whole time. She thought it was entertaining that I was durnk and said she "HAD" to chill with us sometime.

So two days ago, I was drunk with a couple friends again, and I ended up emailing her again. This time, she basically commanded me to invite her next time (lol) and so this weekend we've got plans to get wasted.

One problem though- where would I go? With my buds its easy enough, since we can all stay somewhere- but this isnt the case ehre. Do I try it in the middle of the day, or should we try and crash in my car somewhere?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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eaglez1177

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Wait whats wrong with just staying in the same place you boozed with your friends?
 

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yeah, I would just do what you normally do, seems like she has a high IL, if she would come drink with you alone (I find that most hs girls like to go with groups, at least freshman year), especially if she is a freshman.
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Wait whats wrong with just staying in the same place you boozed with your friends?
Well the thing is we usually get wasted at my friends house. I wouldn't want to impose:nono:
 

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He won't mind... just tell him whats going down. If he does mind then he's a sh!t friend and a c0ckblocker
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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eaglez1177

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Well if you were just inviting that one girl then he probably would mind lol. See if a few of this chicks friends wanna come along that way everyone has fun.
 

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I appreciate the advice.

Though, there is one more complication with using my friends house. That'd be the parents. It's easy enough when its just the guys, because they'll go to sleep and we can raid their cabinets. But with a girl in the house, they'd likely insist that she go home at whatever hour.

That was the primary reason for needing a secondary place.
 
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Try a park or some fields, I had many a great night drinking in fields. You can also take her behind a bush somewhere and slam her one. One more thing; remember to wear protection.
 

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700c said:
I appreciate the advice.

Though, there is one more complication with using my friends house. That'd be the parents. It's easy enough when its just the guys, because they'll go to sleep and we can raid their cabinets. But with a girl in the house, they'd likely insist that she go home at whatever hour.

That was the primary reason for needing a secondary place.
Well your not like expecting her to sleep over your house are you lol? I doubt she would even be allowed to do that anyways, so whats wrong with her going home at like 11 or 12?

If you need another place though, see if any of your friend's houses work or if any of her friend's houses work. Idk where you live but im on the east coast and its legit freezing cold outside so idk who would wanna booze at a part or in the fields lol. Plus thats really sketchy.
 
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