Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting drunk - how often is normal?

Mr.Fantastic

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I'm just wondering, how often do you guys get drunk? I mean how often do you think is healthy or normal? and when you are drunk do most people start acting angry or offensively? because my friends do and I rekon I do when i'm around them. Do you all think that they way you act when drunk shows a lot about a person? If you become happier in your life will you be a more controllable drunk? Is the mere fact that I have to write this a sign that I might have problems?

I want to change, and I think I need new friends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJDamage

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There is a certain age you get to where you are going to look back and say "what is the point of getting drunk and looking like a dumbass?" Its an excuse to lose yourself and act dumb and blame it on alcohol. Alcohol is there to make you feel good but if you take it to the extreme and wake up the next day feeling like sh1t then was it really worth it??!!
 

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Well normal people usually go out on friday and saturdays so probably twice a week. But that's a typical american and a typical american is unhealthy, so if you can. I wouldn't drink more than once a week. It also depends how much you drink. One glass of wine a day is good for your body, while bindge drinking 15 beers at a party is terrible. Alcohol is probably the same level as marijuana, if all you think about is gettin drunk your probably alcoholic. I only drink at social situations, so around once a week or once every two months. Well I don't know if DJdamage is a serious light weight or not, but 3 beers won't do anythin for me and it just makes me warm. I'll feel GREAT the next day since I had better sleep.
 

DJDamage

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CCKazi007 said:
Well I don't know if DJdamage is a serious light weight or not, but 3 beers won't do anythin for me and it just makes me warm. I'll feel GREAT the next day since I had better sleep.
There is a difference between getting a good buzz and feeling good the next day and being drunk where you lose control and feeling like sh1t the following morning. Its up to you to decide what is your limit. Personally I prefer to hit the gym in the morning of saturday or sunday so heavy drinking won't help me.
 

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DJDamage said:
There is a difference between getting a good buzz and feeling good the next day and being drunk where you lose control and feeling like sh1t the following morning. Its up to you to decide what is your limit. Personally I prefer to hit the gym in the morning of saturday or sunday so heavy drinking won't help me.
Oh my bad I usually workout mon, wed and fridays. But I don't see the point of gettin a bad hangover so I usually don't even drink. Seriously I rather smoke cigars or weed then drink alcohol, you can't sarge well when your wasted.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Skilla_Staz

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Being drunk isn't normal
 

CCKazi007

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Skilla_Staz said:
Being drunk isn't normal
What's wrong with staying sober? It's fun watching drunk people do stupid sh*t and getting caught by the cops.
 

BluEyes

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Last summer and for a couple years before that I'd drink every weekend, consistently.

Lately though, I've been drinking probably once or twice a month, and only ever having a couple beers to be social and so people don't ask questions.

Since I've been hitting the gym alot ive stayed away from it.

Coincidentally, I've been sleeping heaps better and scoring more babes.
 

Fred Da Head

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CCKazi007 said:
Oh my bad I usually workout mon, wed and fridays. But I don't see the point of gettin a bad hangover so I usually don't even drink. Seriously I rather smoke cigars or weed then drink alcohol, you can't sarge well when your wasted.
And you can sarge well when stoned? Right. And I'm a Rastafarian.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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as long as your getting drunk with a girl or with ur friends, u can do it as much as u want between the ages of 16 and 40

its only "wrong" if u drink alone
 
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