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Master Don Juan
People are all about emoticons, there are positive emotions and negative ones. Positive one such excited and happy, negative ones such as fear, doubt, anger and resentment.
There are all kinds of things on a conscious level that will make us like some one for example common interests. There are several things on a sub conscious level, also included is looks and confidence these 2, not covered here are the difference between friend and girl friend, but those alone with out friend will not get you anywhere.
We are told about tips for the conversation, but if you get to the route of things the quality of conversation depend on the emotions you make her feel. Boredom is an emoticon caused by a lack of activity to entertain you. So to stop her from being bored do not bore her, either ask her questions she wants to answer and that make her think or engage in rapport, anything you say to her should not be to long winded and should be exciting, ask her about her holiday, which will also give her the emotion of happiness thinking of her holiday. Tell her about your near death experience, this will be exciting so will not bore her!
So if you do not want to bore her think, what can I say to fill her with positive emotions or what can I ask her that her recalling will bring back positive emotions to her.
Never say anything negative and never ask anything that will make her bring back a negative emotion, obviously that’s a general rule because sometimes there are cases that you have to, just don’t do it much.
Fear seems like a negative emotion, it’s a sketchy one, if you tell her something scary she may fear it but be excited, the key is don’t tell her something she has to fear, for no reason (if she’s in danger that’s different) but you can tell her a scary story, again if you ask her something about this, make sure it will not bring negative feelings. This one is not as important because you will not ruin anything by using it just do not make it to frequent and nothing will go wrong. A scary story at night that’s fiction is defiantly good, it’s exciting.
Do not say or make her bring up things that make her sad and depressed, these are negative, tell her and make her bring up happy things and exciting things.
If you make people feel good about them selves they will want to be around you. Compliment sincerely and never put people down, be funny its very positive but not at laughing at someone else’s sure the other will laugh but they will not like you for it, you have to be funny with out hurting people.
People think a positive aura is some magical thing they can not get but its just about positive energy by thinking positive and being energetic rather then tired! Mix that in with making people feel positive emotions as mentioned above and you are good to go.
This shows that neg-hits are only to put girls in their place not for general purpose and C&F is no good if it is annoying them. Now you ask how to be charismatic, but then you must realise this is what most of being charismatic is, the rest is being polite and the way you carry yourself, a good strong confident posture.
Girls don’t like jerks they just like the confidence and if you are confident and courteous they will drop the jerk for you.
Just remember if you make people feel good by making positive emoticons come up in the conversation then you are doing it right. Its easy not to be negative, but try being positive now, (don’t go over the top it will seem faked) you will see the difference.
Don’t deeply analyse what you say just remember it has to be positive and eventually it will be natural to you. Because boredom is harder to beat think of it separately, is it positive? Will it honestly be interesting? If the answers yes then its good and you will improve saying more positive and more interesting things.
To beat boredom make them engage in the conversation this is rapport rather then the 2 of you both asking questions you both make statements (and some questions) about the topic e.g. sports. Rather then just asking questions you discuss the answers being brought up. To do this just think about how you talk with your best friend and replicate it with every one.
There are all kinds of things on a conscious level that will make us like some one for example common interests. There are several things on a sub conscious level, also included is looks and confidence these 2, not covered here are the difference between friend and girl friend, but those alone with out friend will not get you anywhere.
We are told about tips for the conversation, but if you get to the route of things the quality of conversation depend on the emotions you make her feel. Boredom is an emoticon caused by a lack of activity to entertain you. So to stop her from being bored do not bore her, either ask her questions she wants to answer and that make her think or engage in rapport, anything you say to her should not be to long winded and should be exciting, ask her about her holiday, which will also give her the emotion of happiness thinking of her holiday. Tell her about your near death experience, this will be exciting so will not bore her!
So if you do not want to bore her think, what can I say to fill her with positive emotions or what can I ask her that her recalling will bring back positive emotions to her.
Never say anything negative and never ask anything that will make her bring back a negative emotion, obviously that’s a general rule because sometimes there are cases that you have to, just don’t do it much.
Fear seems like a negative emotion, it’s a sketchy one, if you tell her something scary she may fear it but be excited, the key is don’t tell her something she has to fear, for no reason (if she’s in danger that’s different) but you can tell her a scary story, again if you ask her something about this, make sure it will not bring negative feelings. This one is not as important because you will not ruin anything by using it just do not make it to frequent and nothing will go wrong. A scary story at night that’s fiction is defiantly good, it’s exciting.
Do not say or make her bring up things that make her sad and depressed, these are negative, tell her and make her bring up happy things and exciting things.
If you make people feel good about them selves they will want to be around you. Compliment sincerely and never put people down, be funny its very positive but not at laughing at someone else’s sure the other will laugh but they will not like you for it, you have to be funny with out hurting people.
People think a positive aura is some magical thing they can not get but its just about positive energy by thinking positive and being energetic rather then tired! Mix that in with making people feel positive emotions as mentioned above and you are good to go.
This shows that neg-hits are only to put girls in their place not for general purpose and C&F is no good if it is annoying them. Now you ask how to be charismatic, but then you must realise this is what most of being charismatic is, the rest is being polite and the way you carry yourself, a good strong confident posture.
Girls don’t like jerks they just like the confidence and if you are confident and courteous they will drop the jerk for you.
Just remember if you make people feel good by making positive emoticons come up in the conversation then you are doing it right. Its easy not to be negative, but try being positive now, (don’t go over the top it will seem faked) you will see the difference.
Don’t deeply analyse what you say just remember it has to be positive and eventually it will be natural to you. Because boredom is harder to beat think of it separately, is it positive? Will it honestly be interesting? If the answers yes then its good and you will improve saying more positive and more interesting things.
To beat boredom make them engage in the conversation this is rapport rather then the 2 of you both asking questions you both make statements (and some questions) about the topic e.g. sports. Rather then just asking questions you discuss the answers being brought up. To do this just think about how you talk with your best friend and replicate it with every one.
